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Subject: Re: Too late, it's useless now


Author:
Christina
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Date Posted: 17:49:03 07/11/24 Thu
Author Host/IP: 174.192.5.134
In reply to: Matteo 's message, "Re: Too late, it's useless now" on 17:06:32 07/11/24 Thu

>Well, your son was a year younger than I am now when
>he received the bathing suit. Lucky him! During his
>last "nudist" summer, was your son ashamed?
It happened sometimes. When near were girls his age but he didn’t embarrassed adults presence and I bathed him in presence of my friends then sometimes

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Author:
Matteo
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Date Posted: 18:23:36 07/11/24 Thu
Author Host/IP: 93.66.2.221

I too am not embarrassed with adults, but only with my peers and younger children in bathing suits. Has your child never been exposed naked to his peers?
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Author:
Christina
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Date Posted: 18:39:45 07/11/24 Thu
Author Host/IP: 174.192.5.134

>I too am not embarrassed with adults, but only with my
>peers and younger children in bathing suits. Has your
>child never been exposed naked to his peers?

Before 12-13 it happened, no big deal in such age. Moreover, he has school shower where all kids were naked after PE lessons. They took together shower before swim lessons with cleanliness checking after showering
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Author:
Matteo
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Date Posted: 18:54:09 07/11/24 Thu
Author Host/IP: 93.66.2.221

I play in a soccer team and after every training or match we have to shower. There I'm not ashamed because we're all naked, it doesn't matter if every now and then some mother comes in to make sure nothing bad happens.
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Author:
Christina
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Date Posted: 19:22:38 07/11/24 Thu
Author Host/IP: 174.192.5.134

>I play in a soccer team and after every training or
>match we have to shower. There I'm not ashamed because
>we're all naked, it doesn't matter if every now and
>then some mother comes in to make sure nothing bad
>happens.

The same in our school some mothers come to help during swim lessons although some boys now are embarrassed when their cleanliness after shower is checked by mothers on duty.
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Author:
Matteo
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Date Posted: 19:32:39 07/11/24 Thu
Author Host/IP: 93.66.2.221

In my changing room the mothers just check that we don't make a mess. They are always the same two mothers who accepted this assignment. Luckily my mother doesn't come in, otherwise she would embarrass me by washing me like a child
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Author:
Christina
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Date Posted: 20:07:29 07/11/24 Thu
Author Host/IP: 174.192.5.134

>In my changing room the mothers just check that we
>don't make a mess. They are always the same two
>mothers who accepted this assignment. Luckily my
>mother doesn't come in, otherwise she would embarrass
>me by washing me like a child

Why not? I bath my son despite of his 15 still and I know mothers a few his friends do the same. Of course, we do it in home
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Author:
scamptoo (to Christina)
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Date Posted: 11:18:03 07/22/24 Mon
Author Host/IP: 24.57.206.80

>>In my changing room the mothers just check that we
>>don't make a mess. They are always the same two
>>mothers who accepted this assignment. Luckily my
>>mother doesn't come in, otherwise she would embarrass
>>me by washing me like a child
>
>Why not? I bath my son despite of his 15 still and I
>know mothers a few his friends do the same. Of course,
>we do it in home

I think Matteo was more concerned that his mother would walk in and wash him in the shower locker room with the other boys watching her wash him.

From his other posts he doesn't seem to have any problem with his mother washing him at home.

Would you wash your son in the showers in the locker room with the other boys watching?
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Author:
Matteo
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Date Posted: 20:41:46 07/11/24 Thu
Author Host/IP: 93.66.2.221

I have no problems at home. I am bathed by mom, dad, aunt, grandmother, babysitter and I am not ashamed. But yesterday Martina (my female classmate) told me that only small children let adults wash them
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Author:
Christina
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Date Posted: 22:07:59 07/11/24 Thu
Author Host/IP: 174.192.5.134

>I have no problems at home. I am bathed by mom, dad,
>aunt, grandmother, babysitter and I am not ashamed.
>But yesterday Martina (my female classmate) told me
>that only small children let adults wash them

Without doubt, Martina isn’t right. From 5 friends of my son, as I know, 3 are bathed by mothers and one by his dad. If any from friends of my Kevin has sleepover in our home, I bath them both before sleeping.
But the way, Martina already saw you naked and you can be naked on beach with her without problems because she saw already.
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Author:
Matteo
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Date Posted: 01:50:37 07/12/24 Fri
Author Host/IP: 93.66.2.221

Even though Martina has already seen me naked, that doesn't lessen my embarrassment. I really wish she was naked on the beach too, so we would be equal. On the recent vacation with my grandparents, my cousins ​​were also naked on the beach; and that made me less ashamed.
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Author:
Derek to Matteo
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Date Posted: 09:55:40 07/12/24 Fri
Author Host/IP: 174.192.2.169

>Even though Martina has already seen me naked, that
>doesn't lessen my embarrassment. I really wish she was
>naked on the beach too, so we would be equal. On the
>recent vacation with my grandparents, my cousins
>​​were also naked on the beach; and that made me
>less ashamed.

Hello, dude,
You aren’t alone. I’m almost 14 but parents sure I don’t need in swimsuit because boy ought no to be so shy. Nobody from boys on our beach is naked after 12 and girls giggling when we play together.
Matt, I understand you!
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Author:
Matteo
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Date Posted: 15:10:14 07/12/24 Fri
Author Host/IP: 93.66.2.221

Hi Derek, it's nice to read that I'm not the only one who has to be naked on the beach at almost 14 years old (my birthday will be in December). While vacationing with my grandparents, the only kids over 6 to be naked all the time were me and my cousins ​​(ages 7 and 10). Some children under 10 changed out of their swimsuits before leaving without covering themselves with a beach towel. Just a few minutes of nudity.
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Author:
scamptoo (to Matteo)
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Date Posted: 11:25:11 07/22/24 Mon
Author Host/IP: 24.57.206.80

>Even though Martina has already seen me naked, that
>doesn't lessen my embarrassment. I really wish she was
>naked on the beach too, so we would be equal. On the
>recent vacation with my grandparents, my cousins
>​​were also naked on the beach; and that made me
>less ashamed.

Were those cousins that were also naked on the beach boys or girls, or both?
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Author:
Matteo
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Date Posted: 10:04:54 07/23/24 Tue
Author Host/IP: 2.36.88.156

My 7 and 10 year old cousins ​​are both boys. They also always go to the beach without a swimsuit. They are still young and don't worry.
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Author:
scamptoo
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Date Posted: 10:20:05 07/23/24 Tue
Author Host/IP: 24.57.206.80

>My 7 and 10 year old cousins ​​are both boys. They
>also always go to the beach without a swimsuit. They
>are still young and don't worry.

Well, you don't have anything that they don't have as well, so no one is seeing anything you have that they don't have.

I bet you look adorable. Be proud of what you have.
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Author:
scamptoo (to Christina)
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Date Posted: 11:23:01 07/22/24 Mon
Author Host/IP: 24.57.206.80

>>I have no problems at home. I am bathed by mom, dad,
>>aunt, grandmother, babysitter and I am not ashamed.
>>But yesterday Martina (my female classmate) told me
>>that only small children let adults wash them
>
>Without doubt, Martina isn’t right. From 5 friends
>of my son, as I know, 3 are bathed by mothers and one
>by his dad. If any from friends of my Kevin has
>sleepover in our home, I bath them both before
>sleeping.
>But the way, Martina already saw you naked and you can
>be naked on beach with her without problems because
>she saw already.

You make a good point about Martina already seeing him naked.

He hasn't anything she already hasn't seen, and probably at her age, if she is his age, she probably babysits boys and has seen many boys naked and had probably even given those boys their baths.

I doubt he has grown anything since the last time she seen him naked in the bath tub.


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