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Subject: Re: The Double Standard


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tim99
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Date Posted: 04:17:27 11/04/25 Tue
Author Host/IP: 172.83.159.140
In reply to: Trent 's message, "Re: The Double Standard" on 15:30:52 11/03/25 Mon

Yes, Trent,I agree with your last paragraph. Although there are strict restrictions on nudity in official areas, many naked children, mostly boys, still exist in unofficial areas.

Girls are far more likely to see naked boys than boys are to see naked girls when they are young. Many girls have the chance to see naked boys by chance when they are young, but this is not the case for boys. I only saw naked girls when I learned to use internet search engines. Before I had a girlfriend in college, I had never seen a naked girl in real life.

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Nathalie
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Date Posted: 07:03:36 11/04/25 Tue
Author Host/IP: 203.190.14.168

Haha, you are right. All my nieces have seen my nephews naked, along with my son. Countless girls have seen my son naked in the shower rooms, bathrooms, beaches etc. till he was about l0 or 11. But on the other hand, I think the oldest girl my son ever saw naked was only about 3 (excluding any girlfriend of course). I just can't help but laugh thinking how some of his cousins who are closer to his age has seen him naked countless times but he has never seen them naked. It is what it is I guess.

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tim99
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Date Posted: 04:38:54 11/05/25 Wed
Author Host/IP: 172.83.159.140

It is what it is. You are right, Nathalie ,That is the reality. Before puberty, we boys often expose ourselves naked to girls our own age, giving girls a lot of education about male anatomy. Girls' genitals, on the other hand, are always firmly covered by their clothes. This is undoubtedly a double standard. Some say girls may use this advantage to tease boys (although I didn't encounter many such girls growing up). Have you encountered this situation while raising your son? You say countless girls have seen you son naked in different area. Your son might not react much because he's not at the age where male modesty is expected. But what about the girl who saw him naked? And if a girl sees your son naked multiple times, how will her reaction differ from the first time?

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