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Subject: Re: Don't be silly, she's just a little girl!
Author: Burton
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] Date Posted:14:45:32 11/12/25 Wed Author Host/IP: 99.20.103.210 In reply to:
Dave to Burton
's message, "Re: Don't be silly, she's just a little girl!" on 14:22:03 11/12/25 Wed
>>Well, I have managed to use both my first and middle
>>name on this forum. I will probably stick with Burton
>>or Burt going forward.
>>
>>After finding this forum and posting the tomboy
>>thread, I started thinking about similar situations I
>>might have experienced or heard about. This one was
>>told to me by my wife years ago.
>>
>>When she was 9 or 10, she was across the street
>>playing at a friend's house a girl of the same age.
>>The family was beginning the packing process for a
>>trip and the mom was scurrying about making
>>preparations. The two girls were engrossed with
>>playing Barbies. After a time, her friend asked if she
>>wanted a popsicle. They then went looking for the
>>girl's mother, hearing her voice coming from the older
>>brothers room who was 14 or 15 at the time. The girls
>>wandered in to the room to find the mother having the
>>son try on the previous years swimsuits to see if they
>>still fit.
>>
>>The boy who was naked at the time, exclaimed to his
>>mother that the girls should leave. His mother's reply
>>.. " oh, they are just little girls, it doesn't
>>matter." The boy had to continue trying on bathing
>>suits at the mothers insistence while the two girls
>>stood there begging for popsicles.
>>
>>I thought about that and remembered being told the
>>same thing by my mother about my sister and her
>>friends.
>>
>>So, my question is as a boy or young man, were you
>>ever told this? Or for you ladies, were you ever the
>>lucky little girls who were "far to young" to
>>understand what you were seeing (lol) and allowed to
>>stick around?
>
>I have several of these stories. I will post them as
>time allows. Did your wife comment on the sight of the
>boy? I'm assuming she enjoyed seeing him. Sounds like
>they got to watch him a while.
>
>The factually closest thing I've experienced to this
>was when my friends sister would watch us change into
>our swimsuits over the course of the summer. She did
>this pretty much every time we'd change and wasnt shy
>about looking at the places usually hidden by our
>shorts. His mom never said the phrase don't be silly
>but she never disciplined her.
Hi Dave, this was a conversation from long ago but the context was when was the first time you saw the opposite sex (not related to you) naked? A newlywed type conversation, lol. She did say it was her first time seeing a boy with pubic hair and a larger crotch area. Here previous point of reference was her little brother.
So, it was significant enough of an event for her to remember the details years later.
It was common at that time to believe girls did not have their awakening to the opposite sex until much later. From what I can tell, nothing could be further from the truth! This same concept plays in to the locker room thread that was just started.
The "don't be silly, she's just a little girl" comment was reserved for males who protested. Did you or your friend protest regarding his sister's presence? Was mom there too? If you complied, nothing would be said because it was "normal".
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Date Posted:15:29:06 11/12/25 Wed Author Host/IP: 108.236.209.113
>>>Well, I have managed to use both my first and middle
>>>name on this forum. I will probably stick with Burton
>>>or Burt going forward.
>>>
>>>After finding this forum and posting the tomboy
>>>thread, I started thinking about similar situations I
>>>might have experienced or heard about. This one was
>>>told to me by my wife years ago.
>>>
>>>When she was 9 or 10, she was across the street
>>>playing at a friend's house a girl of the same age.
>>>The family was beginning the packing process for a
>>>trip and the mom was scurrying about making
>>>preparations. The two girls were engrossed with
>>>playing Barbies. After a time, her friend asked if
>she
>>>wanted a popsicle. They then went looking for the
>>>girl's mother, hearing her voice coming from the
>older
>>>brothers room who was 14 or 15 at the time. The girls
>>>wandered in to the room to find the mother having the
>>>son try on the previous years swimsuits to see if
>they
>>>still fit.
>>>
>>>The boy who was naked at the time, exclaimed to his
>>>mother that the girls should leave. His mother's
>reply
>>>.. " oh, they are just little girls, it doesn't
>>>matter." The boy had to continue trying on bathing
>>>suits at the mothers insistence while the two girls
>>>stood there begging for popsicles.
>>>
>>>I thought about that and remembered being told the
>>>same thing by my mother about my sister and her
>>>friends.
>>>
>>>So, my question is as a boy or young man, were you
>>>ever told this? Or for you ladies, were you ever the
>>>lucky little girls who were "far to young" to
>>>understand what you were seeing (lol) and allowed to
>>>stick around?
>>
>>I have several of these stories. I will post them as
>>time allows. Did your wife comment on the sight of the
>>boy? I'm assuming she enjoyed seeing him. Sounds like
>>they got to watch him a while.
>>
>>The factually closest thing I've experienced to this
>>was when my friends sister would watch us change into
>>our swimsuits over the course of the summer. She did
>>this pretty much every time we'd change and wasnt shy
>>about looking at the places usually hidden by our
>>shorts. His mom never said the phrase don't be silly
>>but she never disciplined her.
>
>Hi Dave, this was a conversation from long ago but the
>context was when was the first time you saw the
>opposite sex (not related to you) naked? A newlywed
>type conversation, lol. She did say it was her first
>time seeing a boy with pubic hair and a larger crotch
>area. Here previous point of reference was her little
>brother.
>
>So, it was significant enough of an event for her to
>remember the details years later.
>
>It was common at that time to believe girls did not
>have their awakening to the opposite sex until much
>later. From what I can tell, nothing could be further
>from the truth! This same concept plays in to the
>locker room thread that was just started.
>
>The "don't be silly, she's just a little girl" comment
>was reserved for males who protested. Did you or your
>friend protest regarding his sister's presence? Was
>mom there too? If you complied, nothing would be said
>because it was "normal".
Oh yes there were several events that fit the profile though there was one where the shoe was on the other foot.
In the case of my friend, I think he and his brother were most annoyed and did the most protesting. I got the impression she wanted to see them more of a power thing like " ha I can see you and you cant see me!" She was more interested in me and sometimes there would be another boy that would change with us so she got to see him too.
I noticed if you turned your back she would maneuver herself to be able to view your penis lol. It was clear what she waves to see.
Date Posted:15:59:21 11/12/25 Wed Author Host/IP: 148.252.158.27
I think the "we can see you but you can't see us" thing is learned at an early stage. I once had a bath at my aunt's house and while I was standing up on the bath being washed (just before getting out) my cousin stood watching in fascination. She knew I would never see her and neither of us had a sibling.
Date Posted:11:24:38 11/15/25 Sat Author Host/IP: 99.20.103.210
>>>>Well, I have managed to use both my first and middle
>>>>name on this forum. I will probably stick with
>Burton
>>>>or Burt going forward.
>>>>
>>>>After finding this forum and posting the tomboy
>>>>thread, I started thinking about similar situations
>I
>>>>might have experienced or heard about. This one was
>>>>told to me by my wife years ago.
>>>>
>>>>When she was 9 or 10, she was across the street
>>>>playing at a friend's house a girl of the same age.
>>>>The family was beginning the packing process for a
>>>>trip and the mom was scurrying about making
>>>>preparations. The two girls were engrossed with
>>>>playing Barbies. After a time, her friend asked if
>>she
>>>>wanted a popsicle. They then went looking for the
>>>>girl's mother, hearing her voice coming from the
>>older
>>>>brothers room who was 14 or 15 at the time. The
>girls
>>>>wandered in to the room to find the mother having
>the
>>>>son try on the previous years swimsuits to see if
>>they
>>>>still fit.
>>>>
>>>>The boy who was naked at the time, exclaimed to his
>>>>mother that the girls should leave. His mother's
>>reply
>>>>.. " oh, they are just little girls, it doesn't
>>>>matter." The boy had to continue trying on bathing
>>>>suits at the mothers insistence while the two girls
>>>>stood there begging for popsicles.
>>>>
>>>>I thought about that and remembered being told the
>>>>same thing by my mother about my sister and her
>>>>friends.
>>>>
>>>>So, my question is as a boy or young man, were you
>>>>ever told this? Or for you ladies, were you ever the
>>>>lucky little girls who were "far to young" to
>>>>understand what you were seeing (lol) and allowed to
>>>>stick around?
>>>
>>>I have several of these stories. I will post them as
>>>time allows. Did your wife comment on the sight of
>the
>>>boy? I'm assuming she enjoyed seeing him. Sounds
>like
>>>they got to watch him a while.
>>>
>>>The factually closest thing I've experienced to this
>>>was when my friends sister would watch us change into
>>>our swimsuits over the course of the summer. She did
>>>this pretty much every time we'd change and wasnt shy
>>>about looking at the places usually hidden by our
>>>shorts. His mom never said the phrase don't be silly
>>>but she never disciplined her.
>>
>>Hi Dave, this was a conversation from long ago but the
>>context was when was the first time you saw the
>>opposite sex (not related to you) naked? A newlywed
>>type conversation, lol. She did say it was her first
>>time seeing a boy with pubic hair and a larger crotch
>>area. Here previous point of reference was her little
>>brother.
>>
>>So, it was significant enough of an event for her to
>>remember the details years later.
>>
>>It was common at that time to believe girls did not
>>have their awakening to the opposite sex until much
>>later. From what I can tell, nothing could be further
>>from the truth! This same concept plays in to the
>>locker room thread that was just started.
>>
>>The "don't be silly, she's just a little girl" comment
>>was reserved for males who protested. Did you or your
>>friend protest regarding his sister's presence? Was
>>mom there too? If you complied, nothing would be said
>>because it was "normal".
>
>Oh yes there were several events that fit the profile
>though there was one where the shoe was on the other
>foot.
>
>In the case of my friend, I think he and his brother
>were most annoyed and did the most protesting. I got
>the impression she wanted to see them more of a power
>thing like " ha I can see you and you cant see me!"
>She was more interested in me and sometimes there
>would be another boy that would change with us so she
>got to see him too.
>
>I noticed if you turned your back she would maneuver
>herself to be able to view your penis lol. It was
>clear what she waves to see.
>
>Anything like this happen to you personally?
I thought about this subject a bit more and I think I know why the story resonanated with me when my wife told me. The "don't be silly, she is just a little girl" refrain was communicated to males of all ages. There was an afternoon as a kid where the extended family all met at my grandparents for a barbeque and swimming. Later in the day I was sitting in the family room reading a comic when my aunt came marching through with two girls that I vaguely recognized as neighbors. I tried to warn her that her husband was changing out of his wet suit but she was too fast. In the room they went. As I sat there I could hear her husband say to her in a hushed tone, "they need to leave, I'm naked". My aunt responded in her normal booming voice, " don't be silly, they are just little girls, they don't notice these things".
They stayed while my aunt got some sort of hair clips for them and then they all left. I think that left an impression on me.
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