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Subject: Re: A question for the moms Author: Philip [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ] Date Posted: 19:15:46 01/18/26 Sun Author Host/IP: 99.20.103.210 In reply to: spelvin 's message, "Re: A question for the moms" on 06:32:52 01/18/26 Sun >Philip, thank you for starting this thread >and opening me up to some new insights. > >Now that I think about it, >nudity could convey a lot of messages besides "come >have sex with me." >My first realization, as I expressed yesterday, >was that it could mean "come hug me." > >Although our prehistoric forefathers did not have >bathtubs, soap, or shampoo, >they must have washed their children some other way. >So that's why adults respond accordingly when a >child's nudity says "come wash me." >Like many other nasty-minded adults, >I have been unable to interpret the nudity of any >person, >young or old, as meaning anything but "come have sex >with me," >so I wondered why sane and orderly parents take >pictures of their children in the bathtub. >Now I know. > >I am sorry that Jayne has been rejected, >and I am glad that she has finally been accepted. > >Although our prehistoric forefathers did not have >thermometers and stethoscopes, >they must have examined their children some other way. >So that's why adults respond accordingly when a >child's nudity says "come examine me." > >I am sorry that Bio Mom has been rejected, >I am glad that Step Mom has been accepted, >and I am glad Brenda is being accepted. > >Conversely, a child can look cute by being all bundled >up. >I don't know about you, but I think turtle necks look >cute on children, >because that assures that the child is bundled all the >way up to the neck. >Children in loose clothing look cute to me too. > >Our prehistoric forefathers did not have blankets and >pillows from Walmart, >but they had wild animal hides. >The parents who thought their children looked cute >bundled in animal hides were the ones who adequately >provided for their children at nighttime, >and consequently became the parents of strong and >healthy offspring, >and consequently passed their genes down to us. >A child treated thus is saying > >That is why Wendy the Good Little Witch looked cute: > >https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Wendy_the_Good_Little_Wit >ch I am looking at things differently as well. After the divorce from bio mom and before meeting my current wife, I dated a woman with a twelve year old son. The boy was very hostile and jealous toward me. I made every effort to befriend the kid but he was having none of it. His mom soon began to have behavioral problems with him as he would hang on her and wanted hugs all the time. He also began to walk around nude in the house to the point that she would have to reprimand him and insist he got dressed. I have to say I didn't handle it well. I didn't understand what was going on but knew the situation was one I wanted no part of. I made excuses to end the relationship and got out of Dodge. I now see that this was a fear on her sons part of loosing a bond and connection with his mother. I would be much more understanding today. [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ]

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[> [> [> Subject: Re: A question for the moms Author: Philip [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: 19:26:57 01/22/26 Thu Author Host/IP: 99.20.103.210 >>Philip, thank you for starting this thread >>and opening me up to some new insights. >> >>Now that I think about it, >>nudity could convey a lot of messages besides "come >>have sex with me." >>My first realization, as I expressed yesterday, >>was that it could mean "come hug me." >> >>Although our prehistoric forefathers did not have >>bathtubs, soap, or shampoo, >>they must have washed their children some other way. >>So that's why adults respond accordingly when a >>child's nudity says "come wash me." >>Like many other nasty-minded adults, >>I have been unable to interpret the nudity of any >>person, >>young or old, as meaning anything but "come have sex >>with me," >>so I wondered why sane and orderly parents take >>pictures of their children in the bathtub. >>Now I know. >> >>I am sorry that Jayne has been rejected, >>and I am glad that she has finally been accepted. >> >>Although our prehistoric forefathers did not have >>thermometers and stethoscopes, >>they must have examined their children some other way. >>So that's why adults respond accordingly when a >>child's nudity says "come examine me." >> >>I am sorry that Bio Mom has been rejected, >>I am glad that Step Mom has been accepted, >>and I am glad Brenda is being accepted. >> >>Conversely, a child can look cute by being all bundled >>up. >>I don't know about you, but I think turtle necks look >>cute on children, >>because that assures that the child is bundled all the >>way up to the neck. >>Children in loose clothing look cute to me too. >> >>Our prehistoric forefathers did not have blankets and >>pillows from Walmart, >>but they had wild animal hides. >>The parents who thought their children looked cute >>bundled in animal hides were the ones who adequately >>provided for their children at nighttime, >>and consequently became the parents of strong and >>healthy offspring, >>and consequently passed their genes down to us. >>A child treated thus is saying >> >>That is why Wendy the Good Little Witch looked cute: >> >>https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Wendy_the_Good_Little_Wi >t >>ch > > >I am looking at things differently as well. After the >divorce from bio mom and before meeting my current >wife, I dated a woman with a twelve year old son. The >boy was very hostile and jealous toward me. I made >every effort to befriend the kid but he was having >none of it. His mom soon began to have behavioral >problems with him as he would hang on her and wanted >hugs all the time. He also began to walk around nude >in the house to the point that she would have to >reprimand him and insist he got dressed. I have to say >I didn't handle it well. I didn't understand what was >going on but knew the situation was one I wanted no >part of. I made excuses to end the relationship and >got out of Dodge. I now see that this was a fear on >her sons part of loosing a bond and connection with >his mother. I would be much more understanding today. I wanted to stop back by and give an update to close this thread. I took the advice of several posters and spoke to my son directly about the issue. As some wise posters indicated, he didn't want to take his clothes off in front of a lady he barely knew even if she was his biological mother. My wife and I have decided that the best way to handle this issue and others that are similar will be for my wife to continue doing all the motherly things she has always done. Bio mom will have to carve out her own role in the kids life herself. Our family life will continue on as is. Unfortunately there has been some damage with bio mom. It took my son's rejection regarding the nudity issue to bring it home to her that her kids really don't know her. She will have to work on that herself. Thanks again for the great advice! [ Post a Reply to This Message ]