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] Date Posted:04:37:25 08/15/25 Fri Author Host/IP: 2.39.15.59 In reply to:
Matteo to Eliza
's message, "Re: Mistaken for a small child" on 20:03:22 08/14/25 Thu
Is your nephew comfortable being naked even if families with daughters settle near you? Today in Italy it is a holiday (it's called "Ferragosto") and we are at our grandparents' house to have a barbecue. My uncles and cousins are also there. This morning we swam naked in their pool, adults and children. It was beautiful! But now it's lunch time and my parents, uncles and grandparents have gotten dressed. When I asked for my clothes, Mom said we kids could be naked. This worries me a bit because I know that after lunch some of my grandparents' friends will arrive.
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Date Posted:08:30:30 08/15/25 Fri Author Host/IP: 193.34.55.91
Well, sometimes he blushes but after a short while he's back to being comfortable. I think that after all he likes being naked as much as his cousins. ;)
Have a great and happy barbecue! Tell us how it went. :)
Date Posted:00:57:07 08/16/25 Sat Author Host/IP: 2.39.15.59
Yesterday went well. The grandparents' friends were a couple of their age and I was not embarrassed. I even let the woman put on sunscreen for me.
Date Posted:01:35:47 08/16/25 Sat Author Host/IP: 2.39.15.59
Oh, after all she is a grandmother. The real embarrassment was without her. In the evening, after the shower, mum, as usual, put a diaper on me, "so we don't have to put it on later at home when you're tired". This meant spending the last hour at my grandparents' house in a t-shirt and diaper, in front of my uncles and cousins.
Date Posted:01:52:19 08/16/25 Sat Author Host/IP: 193.34.55.91
It might have been a little embarrasing for you, but after all they're your family and they love you no matter what. Don't worry about that. :)
btw: How many specialists your parents consulted about your problem. Incontinence can be a symptom of plenty of conditions both physical and mental. Maybe there's some unresolved early childhood trauma that's causing all this problem. Have you consulted child psychologist?
Date Posted:03:52:16 08/16/25 Sat Author Host/IP: 2.39.15.59
Yes, I have to say that in my extended family, no one makes fun of me for wearing diapers, not even my cousins. But it's still embarrassing for me to be seen wearing a toddler's outfit. Of course, my parents have taken me to many doctors: my bladder is small for my body, but it should return to normal with puberty. During the day, I can hold my urine (for at least ten minutes after the urge), but not at night or when I'm sick. My pediatrician says I'm not the only teenager with this problem, but maybe she's just saying that to console me.
Date Posted:05:59:44 08/16/25 Sat Author Host/IP: 193.34.55.91
Bladder, along with prostate, grows bigger during puberty so it should solve the problem. :)
Date Posted:08:52:22 08/16/25 Sat Author Host/IP: 24.57.206.80
>Yesterday went well. The grandparents' friends were a
>couple of their age and I was not embarrassed. I even
>let the woman put on sunscreen for me.
It was nice of you to allow that woman to put the sunscreen on you.
That could be your first step to being more comfortable in those situations.
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