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Date Posted: 06:28:50 08/17/25 Sun
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>Good morning Lucia, this morning I reread all your
>messages. Thank you because it made me feel better
>knowing that embarrassing situations aren't just me. I
>hope Francesco feels the same relief when you tell him
>about me. If you want, you can also tell him about my
>diapers, since we don't know each other. I have some
>questions about the day at the beach with Tommaso's
>teammate. Did it happen this summer? How did Francesco
>react when he heard that a smaller boy refused to
>undress? Did that boy change out of his wet swimsuit
>at the end of the day?
Good Morning Matteo, or, more correctly, "good afternoon" (even though in Italy it's not used much and we switch from "good morning" to "good evening"...). Sorry I didn't reply to your last message last night; I fell asleep on the couch with my tablet on my lap... I woke up around 1:00 AM because my husband came looking for me when I didn't go back to bed... lol...
I'm glad to hear that what I wrote made you feel better. I only shared what's happening with my children, and if it was helpful, I'm very happy for you. I told Francesco a few things about you (not about the diapers, I respected your privacy, but I'll do that if you like), I just told him about your middle school classmate who witnessed you bathing at your house and then saw you naked on the beach, and about this new high school classmate at the beach. I did it to "console" him for what happened at "Ferragosto" at my friend's house. He was also pleased to hear that his experiences and embarrassments aren't his alone. I'm sorry you and him are so embarrassed. I repeat, but in my opinion, before puberty, all children (and boys in particular) should be naked at home and on the beach. There's nothing to be ashamed of, believe me!
He told me that if he were in your place, on the mattress in the sea, when she grabbed your penis, he would have run away and taken refuge next to me under the umbrella. It was already embarrassing to be seen naked by his classmate, but even holding his penis would have been too much for him. He said you were great and so cool to stay and play with her; he envies your courage; he couldn't have done it. Also since you are two years older than him, he now considers you his idol, his role model...
To answer your questions: yes, it happened this summer, towards the end of June, after school ended. We went for a weekend at the beach while waiting for the holidays, which unfortunately we just finished (both my husband and I are going back to work tomorrow, and my children will be with their grandparents, my parents, for the next few weeks). Francesco was a little surprised and embarrassed at first. He, Tommaso, and the little brother of Tommaso's soccer teammate were naked, while the other was in a swimsuit. He didn't understand why his mother didn't object or force him to undress, letting the child decide. However, after a while, he accepted the situation, and they played together and had fun both on the beach and in the sea, three of them naked and one in a swimsuit. Yes, at the end of the day, he changed into his swimsuit. His mother made him undress, dried him thoroughly, and put on his underwear. All of this happened in front of the other three, without covering him with a towel. He protested, but she replied that he'd seen them naked all day, so it wasn't a big deal if they now saw his penis and his butt for two minutes. A little justice and fairness, at last.
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