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Subject: Re: Basics of our discipline


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Sonya
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Date Posted: 21:00:54 03/23/26 Mon
In reply to: Kah 's message, "Re: Basics of our discipline" on 19:32:47 03/22/26 Sun

Thanks Kah,

Kayla is fully aware that I spank my kids. That's one of the things we talked about on the day we met. Because I literally met her while she was spanking her little girl in the ladies room at Walmart. She was worried, I was going to create problems for her for spanking her daughter's bare bottom in a public place. The more we talked and the more I learned about her and what she was going through, the more I started to feel for her. It's so hard to be a single parent especially one as young as she is. I know she isn't really single, but her husband is thousands of miles away and she had no one at home to lean on or depend on for help since her own family disowned her and his Grandma died a few months after their baby was born. Not only did I feel for Kayla and her situation, but her little girl literally STOLE my heart. We exchanged numbers and I was constantly checking on them and inviting them to my house. Kayla and I would go out together for lunches and shopping. I was only too happy to buy her not only things she needed but things she couldn't afford. They came over for dinner and cookouts and church. I began watching the baby whenever her Momma was at work. My kids loved them both too, especially the baby. My daughter and Jazzy hit it off, Jazzy was literally the little sister Amie-Lynn always wanted. She got her dolls and stuff out of storage and the two of them would play together for hours. It was the night, we were keeping Jazzy because Kayla got called into work, then got fired because of cutbacks, that we decided to have them stay until things got better, but when I saw the conditions they were living in in their run down apartment, I decided they weren't just gonna stay for a little while, They were moving in. Once we convinced her to move in, the boys gave up their bedrooms on the ground floor and moved into the two guest rooms in the basement. So Kayla and Jazzy had their own bedrooms. We convinced Kayla to go back and get her GED when the next semester started and enrolled Jazzy in the School my youngest goes to. We got to know her husband through his skype calls and text messages and he was thrilled that she had people at home who cared about her. When we let him know we wanted to adopt her, he was all for it. He has fourteen more months left in his current tour and does not plan to re-up. My Daddy told him he has a job waiting for him when he comes home for good. We got the chance to meet him in person Just before Christmas because he had three weeks of leave. He is a very impressive young man who loves his family with all his heart.

Now Kayla has heard me spank two of my kids My youngest son Brian and Amie-Lynn. She did see one of Brian's spankings. She walked in on it by accident and apologized. Afterword she apologized to Brian for walking in on his spanking. He just hugged her and said "it's ok sis." In some ways the way I spank the kids has changed since Kayla and Jazzy moved in. I used to spank mostly in the living room, bare butt of course. But now, I'm doing the spankings more in their bedrooms or the bathroom instead of in the living room or kitchen. That started when Amie-Lynn got in trouble at school before we adopted Kayla. She knew she had a spanking coming, and she asked me to spank her in her room instead of in front of Jazzy. I asked why and she said, "I don't want her getting upset seeing me getting spanked. I whispered "Ok go on to your room and I'll be there in a minute." so she went to her room. Kayla asked me what was going on and I told her. She apologized and said, "I think maybe I'll take Jazzy outside and distract her. Brian came up and I asked him to go out with them and keep the baby distracted. He seemed to know what was going on and agreed. Then I went to Amie-Lynn's room. We talked about what she had done, then I told her that Jazzy was outside with Kayla and Brian and they were keeping her distracted so she wouldn't know. So she pulled her pants down went across my knee and I gave her the spanking. After crying for a few minutes, she thanked me for not spanking her in front of the baby. We hugged and I told her she could come out of her room when she was ready. When she came out she sat at the table to do her homework and the baby came in and jumped up in her lap. She noticed her eyes were red and a little puffy, She asked, "What's wrong?" and before Amie-Lynn could answer Jazzy asked, "did you get a spankin'?" She looked at me and then back at her and said, "Yeah Baby, Momma gave me a spanking for getting in trouble at school today." Jazzy looked serious at her and then said, "Does it hurt?" My daughter said, "Yeah hon it hurts a little but I'm ok." Then she cuddled up with Amie-Lynn saying I'm sorry." The two sat in the chair cuddling for a while. Then she finished her homework and took the baby back to her room to play.

If you have any other questions please feel free to ask.

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