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>Well I would have been proud regardless of your >decision, but I am proud of you both for doing what >you feel could help your family discipline the most >effectively. >(oh and if mom herself wants to post here or even >email me for support from other ladies, she's welcome!) > >I assume moms home more during the day so it makes >sense for her to discipline. One concept some dual >parent households use is (for serious spankings not >short ones or a couple warning slaps) is that if one >is given during day by mom than dad will give a >shorter hand refresher at bedtime to go over what they >should do in future > >It would show that even if mommy already spoke to them >about it, that you're both on the EXACT same page > >In what ways is she rebelling? And yes she is at that >precocious tween age isnt she? I drove my mom crazy as >a tween/teen hehe memories > >But please do remind your wife as well, that boys and >girls respond differently to physical discipline as >you well know I am sure, with boys it just seems to >have a very profound impact on them , i thibk its >because boys are so physical especially with the kinds >of trouble they tend towards > >Plus it also allows them to nurture the emotional side >by seeking comfort after, which when boys get older >still isnt encouraged to be shown which is sad.. > >Girls respond well too, its just different for us :P >Still emotional and all that, just.. different.. hard >to put it i words lol > >I really hope you will keep us up to date. Also even >if a full session is say twice a week average, there >can still be smaller sets of smacks given like 2-3 as >a warning if theyre headed to one, or a set of ten >for a slightly more serious issue in addition > >I do have little conversations with my two about >discipline, very basic on a kid level of course. but >like asking thmm how they feel when mommy spanks, or >has to lecture them. >I explain why discipline is important and why our >family chooses to spank, let them ask questions.. > >Show them its nothing huge, just what happens in our >family. >I sometimes bring it up at dinner table, during >baths, in the car, during family time, > >just whenever i feel like its a good time, not >constant but often enough, unless they ask to talk >about it more lol > >Last weekend theres an example if we are out I will >do this, we were at the grocery store, there as a boy >about 6 having a tantrum. once next aisle over I said >"wow hes being naughty isnt he?" to see their >reaction. they both said yah... but daughter added "he >needs a spankin!" I smilled, patted her head ,and said >yes dear but thats his moms decision to make > >Sorry for the novel! lol just was super happy to hear >that news. Look forward to the updates as each day >goes by - heres to hoping the teamwork does indeed >make things run smoother and reduce tween attitude! >Otherwise some more soap too could be in order (oh >yuck I hated it so bad when mom did it for backtalk >including eye rolling lol) > >Any questions, concerns etc as always feel free to ask > >PSS : tell her it may have ben a while but she can do >this, shes GOT this. Shes seen you spank enough that I >am sure she remembers lol

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