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>Hi Sarah, > >Thanks. You are sweet! > >I say with confidence my Wife can give a spanking! > >>Well I would have been proud regardless of your >>decision, but I am proud of you both for doing what >>you feel could help your family discipline the most >>effectively. >>(oh and if mom herself wants to post here or even >>email me for support from other ladies, she's >welcome!) >> >>I assume moms home more during the day so it makes >>sense for her to discipline. One concept some dual >>parent households use is (for serious spankings not >>short ones or a couple warning slaps) is that if one >>is given during day by mom than dad will give a >>shorter hand refresher at bedtime to go over what they >>should do in future >> >>It would show that even if mommy already spoke to them >>about it, that you're both on the EXACT same page >> >>In what ways is she rebelling? And yes she is at that >>precocious tween age isnt she? I drove my mom crazy as >>a tween/teen hehe memories >> >>But please do remind your wife as well, that boys and >>girls respond differently to physical discipline as >>you well know I am sure, with boys it just seems to >>have a very profound impact on them , i thibk its >>because boys are so physical especially with the kinds >>of trouble they tend towards >> >>Plus it also allows them to nurture the emotional side >>by seeking comfort after, which when boys get older >>still isnt encouraged to be shown which is sad.. >> >>Girls respond well too, its just different for us :P >>Still emotional and all that, just.. different.. hard >>to put it i words lol >> >>I really hope you will keep us up to date. Also even >>if a full session is say twice a week average, there >>can still be smaller sets of smacks given like 2-3 as >>a warning if theyre headed to one, or a set of ten >>for a slightly more serious issue in addition >> >>I do have little conversations with my two about >>discipline, very basic on a kid level of course. but >>like asking thmm how they feel when mommy spanks, or >>has to lecture them. >>I explain why discipline is important and why our >>family chooses to spank, let them ask questions.. >> >>Show them its nothing huge, just what happens in our >>family. >>I sometimes bring it up at dinner table, during >>baths, in the car, during family time, >> >>just whenever i feel like its a good time, not >>constant but often enough, unless they ask to talk >>about it more lol >> >>Last weekend theres an example if we are out I will >>do this, we were at the grocery store, there as a boy >>about 6 having a tantrum. once next aisle over I said >>"wow hes being naughty isnt he?" to see their >>reaction. they both said yah... but daughter added "he >>needs a spankin!" I smilled, patted her head ,and said >>yes dear but thats his moms decision to make >> >>Sorry for the novel! lol just was super happy to hear >>that news. Look forward to the updates as each day >>goes by - heres to hoping the teamwork does indeed >>make things run smoother and reduce tween attitude! >>Otherwise some more soap too could be in order (oh >>yuck I hated it so bad when mom did it for backtalk >>including eye rolling lol) >> >>Any questions, concerns etc as always feel free to >ask >> >>PSS : tell her it may have ben a while but she can do >>this, shes GOT this. Shes seen you spank enough that I >>am sure she remembers lol

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