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Subject: Re: Questions To Get Discussion Going


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Date Posted: 09:59:35 04/18/26 Sat
In reply to: Sarah 's message, "Questions To Get Discussion Going" on 18:03:38 03/21/26 Sat

I was spanked by a lot of people, both parents, both of my best friend's parents, several of my other friends' parents, grade school teachers, the high school principal, most of my babysitters.

No, I don't go to church. I don't need anyone to interfere with my relationship with Deity.

I am about the same strictness as my parents, and, like them, never pass up a good opportunity to scorch a deserving bottom.

I'm not sure about society in general returning to pro-spanking. I can only speak for myself. I do know all those close to me use it as a discipline too.

Not really "in public" beyond a couple of swats on a clothed backside in a store with a promise of more to come in stores when a child threw a fit when denied some item they desired. Have seen more than one kid get it in a back yard, including myself.

I don't just allow babysitters to spank, I wouldn't hire one who isn't ready to spank at the least provocation.

It's very difficult to keep kids "from growing up too fast" these days. One thing is to not allow them to have a cell phone until they are in high school, and then only a simple "talk and text" type for needed communication, not a mini computer. Also, watch the kind of friends with whom they associate. Hopefully, by how you raised them, they will choose friends who will not lead them into trouble.

I'm OLD, and fortunately live in a place where the schools were / are still pretty conservative. My kids went to public school. Of my son's kids, one, who lives in a city, and makes enough of a salary, sends his kids to a private school. The other's go to public school.

Yes, I drank out of hoses, and it never seemed to do me any harm. I didn't HAVE to stay out until the street lights came on. Many nights I couldn't, especially if I had much homework, that came first; and other nights I often had a book I was reading which kept me indoors and amused, and, from age 12 on, I had my business which often took my evenings, repairing neighbors' radios and TVs and small appliances. Also, living on a farm, there was always garden work to do, and animals to tend.

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Re: Questions To Get Discussion GoingDestiny14:51:02 05/02/26 Sat
    Re: Questions To Get Discussion GoingLouise Vancisic Vancisic07:28:48 05/03/26 Sun


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