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Date Posted: 00:20:43 02/26/02 Tue
Author: Laura
Subject: Re: trust: already a problem
In reply to: Paula 's message, "Re: Update - Our First Meeting" on 14:24:28 02/23/02 Sat

Guess what...it doesn't look like this person and I will have much of a relationship at all even considering the fact that we had such a wonderful and successful meeting. I bet you won't be surprised when I tell you why...he had someone already in his life - on the verge of breaking up, yeah, I know, that's what they all say.

The breaking up process was imminent and almost final when, it turns out, this woman saw him with me. She completely lost it and he has spent more than a week trying to help her regain her bearings. He hardly writes to me, won't tell me what is going on, and won't answer me when I ask him if he ever wants to see me again. In fact, he won't answer me regarding anything personal, except that he said it was wonderful meeting me and he will never forget it.

It is awful timing for things to end between us, I have become too dependent on him, and am going through a personal ordeal that is very emotional and trying. I guess if there were any advice now, it would be how do I deal with my loneliness and sadness that feels endless. :-(

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