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Date Posted: 05:19:32 03/28/02 Thu
Author: lisa
Subject: We're here for you!
In reply to: Cindy 's message, "Re: I need her back!" on 00:47:07 03/23/02 Sat

you poor thing...it must hurt knowing that if this guy never called you two may have had the chance to start with a new relationship. I think it is better she told you right away that she may not have been over her ex. I would just give it time. it doesn't seem like wither of you had any malicious intentions.

she may have been on the rebound, which is why she was allowing things to go so fast so soon with you. if this guy isnt the one for her, then they will break up in their own time.

this is the hardest part...the waiting. i suggest you take your friend's advice and move on. while it isnt bad to wait to see what happens, you need to keep your mind on other things so this doesnt totally eat you up. go out with friends and go on dates with girls for fun...there is no rush to begin a new relationship, just take girls out and enjoy yourself! who knows, you may later thank yourself for not getting into a serious relationship because being single is so much fun sometimes! there are many things you can do (like go away for a few days at a minutes motice) and lots of money to be saved (it costs less for one movie ticket rather that 2)

im sorry she hurt you. she sounds like she is very confused. she was probably hurting from the ex breaking up with her, and just needs to feel good about that relationship.

contact her and ask her what she is doing and if she sees this as a long term thing with the ex. dont make it obvious that you want to wait for her, but let her know that you are her friend and she may see that you are a better person for her than he is.

then, you need to slowly let it go. time does heal, and as i said before, the waiting is the worst. but eventually it gets easier to deal with. you need to give her her space. if she comes back to you, it is meant to be. if she doesn't come back to you, she probably never had her heart in this relationship to begin with.

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