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Date Posted: 11:16:12 04/25/02 Thu
Author: marie
Subject: Re: Wondering about a Fiance Visa
In reply to: Andrea 's message, "Re: Wondering about a Fiance Visa" on 01:11:38 04/22/02 Mon

There are alot of men and women out there whose motive it is to seduce and exploit innocent citizens in order to gain legal entry into the States.
You are not thinking clearly at all if you would consider marrying someone( all romantic fantasies aside) you have yet to meet.
I think it only reasonable that if you are planning to marry and sponsor someone Immigration would expect that you have met.With the net now widely availaable these sorts of parasites have ample opportunity to do this without even having to go to the country. I would say be very aware..and realistic...........I think the amount of relationships that die a sudden and quick death upon meeting, are probably more the rule than the exception.
Everyone can be the perfect lover when we only get the best snaps of them and a few hours a day of their time.
PIctures can be deceiving, and esp for men...visual is soooooo important.
You cannot make monumental decisions without having met the man.NOt to mention, upon sponsoring him, you will be required to be like a co signer ; responsible for all debts( esp state ones) for up to a 10 yr period.That is no joke!
Are you ready to commit to THAT without even having met the guy? A person can cripple you finacially for the rest of your life....in a ten yr period!
And when it comes to marrying a man post haste, so he can get into the country , you will have your days when oyu wonder ( like the rich do)....was it for love or country...or money??????

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Re: Wondering about a Fiance Visa -- Donna, 14:37:46 06/26/02 Wed
- Re: Wondering about a Fiance Visa -- Matt, 19:24:36 07/31/02 Wed