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Date Posted: 18:25:44 12/06/99 Mon
Author: Max
Subject: more stories
In reply to: GF 's message, "Diamonds in the Gravel" on 07:32:50 12/06/99 Mon

I just heard there was another school shooting, a middle-school boy shot 4 classmates. He doesn't know why. I have heard about that reality therapy technique. There are a lot of therapy models out there. Some say, "leave the gravel alone and forget the diamonds- we can make you some cubic zirconia". I guess there is something for everyone. Over and out...
Max


> > As far as the media goes... I always find it
> > fascinating what stories they broadcast and the ones
> > they just drop. There are some stories that as soon
> > as they find out there was no drama involved (i.e. no
> > terrorist plot)it remains unheard. I know someone
> > that did their doctoral dissertation on what popular
> > murder/mystery books can tell us about people in our
> > country. I think a lot. Maybe more than the news
> can
> > ever show.
> > Max
>
> Yes. In a sense, we are what we read. God help us.
>
> I think the antidote is to try to read/think/view at
> least as much possitive stuff as negative. Pretty
> tough these days, but can be done, I believe. The
> thinking part is most important.
>
> A man of the Blue named Robert Ringer called it
> Reality Therapy. The way it works is you program
> yourself to expect to have to dig through a whole lot
> of gravel to find the diamonds in life. You remind
> yourself constantly that the diamonds are there, which
> they are. But you don't expect to find them lying
> around shimmering in the sunlight.
>
> If they were lying around in small piles everywhere,
> they wouldn't be much more valuable than the gravel,
> I'd guess. GF

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