| Subject: Ve y nghia cua "song cho ban than minh" nhu cac ban LeParia va Hoa da de cap den. (24 Jun 01) |
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Huvo
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Date Posted: Tue, Sep 04 2001, 9:32:41
In reply to:
LeParia
's message, "Re: song cho ban than minh (22 Jun 01)" on Tue, Sep 04 2001, 9:30:52
Chao LeParia va Hoa,
Toi hieu cac ban va ca ban than toi nua, muon xa hoi cong nhan rang Gay khong phai va benh hoan ( both in physical and mental status ), cung khong phai la trao luu thoi thuong quai di gi ca .Chi co con nguoi muon (steal) " thuoc tinh" gay de truc loi ma thoi.Co nhieu nguoi nam ma thich mac quan ao, deo nu trang cua nu gioi ,ong eo, la loi,... ho chang phai la gay ma la trans (dong bong), cung nhu nhieu nguoi nam tinh rat 100% cung hoc doi 1 vai cu chi ong eo cua nu gioi,cho no co ve "thoi thuong".
Gay thuc chat khong phai la nhung tang lop do. Nguoi co
ban chat gay la do bam sinh,ho co kha nang cam nhan va cam xuc cai dep ve hinh the va tinh than cua ca hai phai nu va nam (neu la bi) hoac chi co nam ( neu la gay 100%).Nhung vi it co su nhan dinh va phan chia nghiem tuc nao duoc dua len cong luan(ngoai tru 1 so bai viet cua Bac si Tran Bong Son) nen nguoi ta van gop chung cac nhom noi tren lai va hinh tuong hoa no tren san khau thanh chi co 1 dang trans ma thoi.
Gioi GAy cung la con nguoi va 1 trong nhung nhu cau chinh dang cua con nguoi la duoc cong nhan, the hien ve mat phap ly va du luan xa hoi.Ve diem nay, 1 lan nua Trung Quoc lai di truoc ta khi thang Tu vua qua da thong nhat xoa bo viec coi dong tinh ai la hien tuong benh ly.
Ve mat phap luat va xa hoi, ro rang A chau chua chap nhan hon nhan dong gioi ( co nguyen nhan sau xa tu van hoa Khong
Manh va Phat giao) (- nhung viec xin con nuoi hinh nhu khong den noi khat khe nhu ban LeParia noi.Ma neu ban xin khong duoc thi me ban dung ten xin...chau nuoi, thi no cung la con cua ban vay phai khong?)
Nhung dieu tren co anh huong den tu tuong ma ban Hoa va LeParia noi la "song cho ban than minh". Toi cho la cac ban
muon keu goi xa hoi cong nhan va ton trong quyen tu do luyen ai cua con nguoi, trong do co gioi Gay voi quyen tu do dong tinh ai. Co nghia la khong ai co quyen cam doan viec ban nam tay hoac om hon ban tinh nam cua minh o ngoai pho ,hoac dem ban nam ve nha o chung nhu nguoi yeu.Viec nay, chac chan phai co qua trinh, vi VN ta thuoc he tu tuong Nho giao phong kien, khong cong nhan hon nhan dong tinh ai.
Ta co the di truoc phap luat va du luan 1 buoc, bang quyet dinh cua ban than minh ve tinh trang hon nhan, dieu nay cac ban cho la " song cho ban than minh" , toi hieu y cac ban muon noi nhu the, hay noi cach khac "song thuc chat voi tinh cam cua minh".
Than oi, toi va 1 so ban trong do co anh Song Thuong, NewComer va Friend,... o trong 1 giai doan truoc cac ban, luc ma xa hoi co nhung qui dinh ngat ngheo ve hinh thuc cho dan ong : trai lon len phai cuoi vo, sinh con,co cong an viec lam... Con cac ban hien nay mac du chua phai la duoc thoa man nhu cau "song thuc chat voi tinh cam cua minh" nhung cai nhin cua xa hoi da bot gay gat hon,thuc ra cac ban da duoc"song cho ban than minh" hon bon toi roi do.
Ta phai chap nhan dung hoa su hy sinh cua ban than va thoa man nhu cau tinh cam ca nhan ma thoi.
Vi vay, neu sau nay toi va ban LeParia chang han, co gap nhau va cam men nhau, co quan he voi nhau... thi cung la binh thuong thoi,no se giup cho chung toi lay lai thang bang ve tam sinh ly vi dap ung duoc nhu cau co that cu ban than minh. Neu dung de xay ra viec bo be gia dinh con cai hoac cong viec co quan, toi nghi anh NewComer va cac anh khac chac cung khong den noi khat khe ,cho la chung toi - Gays- chi biet tinh duc ma thoi. Co phai nhu vay khong ?
Than ai,
Huvo
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