| Subject: Tai sao lai bao la khong that long? Men gui Quan va Newcomer! (18 Jun 01) |
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Song Thuong
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Date Posted: Tue, Sep 04 2001, 9:34:24
In reply to:
Quan
's message, "Tai sao lai bao la khong that long? (16 Jun 01)" on Tue, Sep 04 2001, 9:12:06
Quan than men!
Ban qua la tuyet voi! Toi dam chac ban da co mot cuoc song em am va hanh phuc. Tuong lai cua ban se tot dep boi tat ca suy nghi cua ban da noi len dieu ay. Toi quan niem rang, bat ky mot con nguoi nao, y chi va long quyet tam se quyet dinh cuoc song va tuong lai cua ho. Tat ca nhung van de khac, nhung pham tru khac thuoc ve cuoc song cua chung ta khong phai la khong quan trong, nhung no phu thuoc vao y chi va long quyet tam cua ta. Neu ta muon co cuoc song gia dinh am em, ta hay danh het tam huyet, suc luc de xay dung roi han ta se co. Nguoc lai, neu ta lo so rang se khong bao gio co duoc hanh phuc va ta khong tien toi, duong nhien la se khong bao gio co duoc phai khong ban? Thuc ra nhin ra xung quanh, toi thay co phai 100% nhung nguoi dan ong binh thuong deu hanh phuc ca dau. Nhieu nguoi trong so ho cung tan vo do rat nhieu yeu to, rat nhieu nguyen nhan khac nhau. Suy cho cung chung ta van cu la mot nguoi dan ong. Moi ca nhan chung ta co nhung suy nghi, nhung so thich, nhung thoi quen khac nhau thi cung la dieu binh thuong. Chang co gi phai qua quan trong den nhu vay. Nhung viec chung ta lay vo, lap gia dinh, sinh con de cai, lo cac bon phan va trach nhiem toi thieu doi voi mot cuoc song mot con nguoi thi toi cho rang do lai la viec chung ta can phai lam. Toi khong phai la chuyen gia ve linh vuc nay nen toi that kho co the dua ra nhung luan cu cho quan diem do nhung toi chi biet rang toi se phai lam nhu vay. Chi co quyet dinh nhu the thi toi moi thanh than va yen long. Chi co nhu the thi toi moi thay toi la binh thuong.
Con viec vao dien dan nay thi co gi la dac biet dau phai khong ban? Muc dich cua toi la luon tim nhung ban be co cung quan diem giong minh de chia se, giup do nhau vuot qua nhung kho khan, tro ngai(neu co). Do la muc dich cua toi khi vao day. Toi nghi no cung het suc binh thuong nhu moi thu binh thuong khac xay ra o tren doi nay. Toi cung thay no co cai hay, cai tot that su. Tai sao mot so ban lai cu dat ra cau hoi "Neu ban la nguoi binh thuong thi tai sao lai tham gia vao dien dan nay?". Co phai tu cac ban ay da cho rang cai dien dan nay la khong binh thuong hay sao? Phai chang tu cac ban ay thua nhan nhung diem khong tot va khac thuong nen ho cho rang nhung nguoi binh thuong thi khong nen tham gia? Cuoc song quanh ta muon mau sac, nhieu huong vi. Rong ruoi qua day ma gap duoc ban be tri am thi cung tot chu sao. Ban co nghi rang chung ta neu hop nhau thi co the ket ban theo dung nghia cua tu nay duoc khong? Tai sao lai khong? Phai chang cu ket ban voi nhau la chung ta phai nghi ngay den cai thu dam me xac thit hay sao? Chang nhe ngoai nhung chuyen do ra chung ta khong can gi khac cho cuoc song cua chung ta nua hay sao? Mot nguoi dan ong hay mot nguoi phu nu, cho du la da co gia dinh, da co cuoc song hon nhan thi nguoi ta van can co mot khoang nho rieng tu. Dieu do cung la binh thuong. Dung nhu ban noi vay do. Nguoi dan ong van can co nhung thu vui gap ban trai de uong ruou, nhau nhet de dam dao nhieu thu ve cuoc song, ve the thao, ve mot dien vien xinh dep nao do, ve mot tac pham van hoc nghe thuat noi tieng nao do, ve mot van de chinh tri trong nuoc va the gioi ma du luan dang quan tam, ve cai du dinh lon lao cua su nghiep ma anh ta theo duoi...Phu nu cung vay, co gia dinh roi nhung ho van muon doi khi duoc tach ra trong choc lat khoi cai gia dinh em am ay de gap ban gai cua ho thuo nao de tam tu, de ban ve con ca, la rau, ve cho bua va gia ca , de ban ve kieu toc, ve mot thoi trang, ve mot loai son phan, ve chong minh, ve dua con cua minh va rat nhieu thu khac nua...Nhu the au cung la chuyen binh thuong phai khong ban?
Rat cam on ve su thong hieu va cam thong cua ban Quan. Hy vong chung ta se co nhieu viec thu vi de cung trao doi.
Xin phep ban quan cho minh noi chuyen voi ban Newcomer doi chut.Chac la ban chua co dieu kien de hieu va thong cam voi toi thoi. Ban co quyen nghi ngo va dat dau hoi ve nhung dieu tam tu cua toi. Dieu ay cung la binh thuong thoi. Da trao doi o dien dan nay, dieu ay co gi la la. Nhung toi chi man phep de trao doi voi ban rang ban dung nghi ngo ve nhung dieu tot dep cua mot mai am gia dinh thuc thu. Toi khong dam khuyen ban nhung toi chi mong ban hay suy nghi that su ve tuong lai cua ban cua toi, cua tat ca moi nguoi thoi. Toi co the khang dinh chac chan voi ban rang, dieu ban nghi ngo toi rang "loi dung gia dinh" la khong he co. Toi gong minh de vun dap no, de treo lai va dua no ngup lan trong gian kho de sau gan 10 nam troi toi moi duoc tham nhung giot hanh phuc muon man thi lam sao toi lai co the de dang danh doi no trong luc tuoi tu tuan da dan den go cua nha toi? Ban Newcomer than men. Du sao toi cung rat cam on ban vi ban da danh thoi gian de doc nhung dong thu cua toi va da trao doi voi toi. Tuy la y kien cua ban va toi chua giong nhau. Nhung neu ban van co mot khat vong ve mot tuong lai tot dep cua ban toi tin la den mot khoanh khac nao do, ban se co nhung suy nghi giong nhu toi. Toi rat mong duoc trao doi them voi ban. O mot dong tin khac, toi thay ban la nguoi co trai tim nhan hau va tam long cao thuong. Do la chat lieu quy de ban co duoc mot hanh phuc chan chinh va dich thuc. Cau mong ban khoe va hanh phuc.
Chuc Quan hanh phuc.
Hen gap lai.
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