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Date Posted: 00:09:17 09/09/01 Sun
Author: Rhonda K
Author Host/IP: 216.66.152.190
Subject: Lornes' Divorce is getting MESSY....and I am going to be right in the middle.

#@$%$#@! She is a selfish, self centred, lazy, career VICTIM...that never deserved him.

Lorne got served this morning. We decided last week, that she was being so unreasonable...and the kids are unhappy, that we would go fight for custody. Lornes son was feeling unloved...because we hadn't fought for custody, but now that we are...he is saying, not to bring him into the middle of it..??? The poor kid is so confused...and I don't want him to get hurt.

BUT...get this. I have now got to provide, MY FINANCIAL STATEMENT...and there is NOTHING that protects my rights. I did not work as hard as I have over the past 20 years...to have part of it...used to support a woman who is milking the system on DISABILITY. I mean, she has even come straight out and told Lorne that the only reason she goes to see this wacko doctor of hers....is because he was the only one she could find that would sign her forms for her. OMG.

AND then, we got a financial statement from her...saying that she spends 1500 dollars a year on clothes for the kids. GIVE ME A F#$@! BREAK. She shops for them at value village and the only new clothes the daughter has gotten are the things Lorne and I have bought for her. AND his son, has been working for the past year...and he buys all his own clothes...pays for his own entertainment and is even helping her with the cablevision and phone bill. AND, he bought everything he needs for school with his money and he is fixing up his room...with his money. She does not put out any money for him at all.

She is in a condo that she wanted and Lorne said they could not afford...but she talked him into it and they were living way beyond their means...there is no way any SMART couple would have bought that condo...with the income those two had....and NOW, I have to bring my finances into this. To support her.

I am so mad. I could ring her lazy little neck. I go to work, some days on the verge of tears because of my depression. In constant pain in my back, shoulder, knees and hips because of my arthritus....and she says she is disabled. OMG.....

Lorne and I are now looking for a new lawyer, as his last one, didn't want to go to litigation...we are filing a complaint against her with the Dept of Law??? Anyway, we have decided to go all out now...we will have her fully audited, have an independent medical assessment done by a court appointed doctor. She may just lose everything, including her right to stay at home all day and play online.

OH...THEN...she calls Lorne an alcoholic and a pervert???!!! He drank when he was with her, because she made him miserable and all she did was complain about herself. This man worked nightshift....for 14 years, after a childhood that left him slightly crippled from polio and now he suffers from post polio..which means chronic pain in his legs, fatigue and sore back...and she whines as soon as he walks in the door.

Because of his handicap, Lorne grew up with very little self esteem...and she thought he would always be the quiet, subordinate husband...well, one day he woke up and decided, he needed to get things back in control. He was never an alcoholic...he would drink before going home...because look what he had at home.

OH...and then...get this...HE RAISED HER FIRST TWO KIDS. She would not go after her first husband for child support, so Lorne raised them and supported them....but does she think of that now???? Fuck (sorry) no...she just looks at me and thinks...she has money....she is with the father of my children...I want her money.

Do I sound pissed off...I am. I am because now the kids are going to have to see...just what type of woman their mother is. And Lorne and I have been trying so hard to protect them from that. But what else can we do. I am not giving up my income for her...no way. I have my life, my needs and my dreams...she is not going to get in the way of that and heaven help her if she does.

Wow..that was a good vent...I needed that. Wish us luck. We have to get through this...and win...we can't think anything else.

Love you guys lots...take care...MUH MUH MUH

Rhonda K

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