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Date Posted: 20:17:03 08/19/01 Sun
Author: Jonathan
Author Host/IP: 65.227.114.81
Subject: Re: Why is it wrong to express yourself.....or be nice?
In reply to: gem 's message, "Why is it wrong to express yourself.....or be nice?" on 15:17:43 08/19/01 Sun

Some poeple are that way because they have grown comfy with you. They feel they can let it all out on you because they have no one else to gripe to. You gotta make it clear that your not a dish rag. You gotta set some boundaries that that person will not cross. Otherwise, it will get worse. I know. I used to do that to others. I forgot that those closest to me were getting hurt worse than everyone else. The cost of that foolishness cost me my marriage. I will never speak a harmful word again like that. But the wounds I recieved will carry me through life. But like all scars. They fade... but they will never quite go away. You are a victim. Stand up and defend yourself. Maybe that person needs to read this post too. Tell them to take it from a pro. If you don't have anything good to say, don't say anything at all!

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  • Re: Why is it wrong to express yourself.....or be nice? -- Sandy, 00:05:52 08/20/01 Mon
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