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Date Posted: 07:15:51 04/09/00 Sun
Author: Beth
Subject: Re: To Shannon
In reply to: Amy 's message, "Re: To Shannon" on 07:04:17 04/09/00 Sun

> > ok, first i wanna say, that i dont have a problem
> with
> > shannon, iwont say she never bothered me, but i
> really
> > and truly think shes toned it down a lot since i
> first
> > met her, and think she shouldnt let things get to
> her,
> > it happens to all of us at some point. now, as for a
> > certain person who chose to air my dirty laundry for
> > everyone to see, perhaps she wants everyone to know
> > the whole story. it wasnt the fact that she couldnt
> > commit to either of the 2 guys she mentioned, it was
> > that she was lying, conniving, and deceitful as she
> > committed to both of us at the same time. she played
> > us both off of each other, and kept us at odds, so
> she
> > could continue her game. and as for the mean things
> > that she saw said about her, it was because it was
> the
> > same night the other person and i compared notes and
> > found out she was dishing out identical lies to both
> > of us, which she followed the very next day by
> > sleeping with yet a 3rd person, from her home state.
> > all while being married still, and living with her
> > husband. and now, this person chooses to act as if
> > shes gracious and forgave US? i dont hate her, and
> > even begged her to come back to me the very same
> night
> > i found out all that i did, and thought that we were
> > friends at least to this day, but to see this on a
> > messageboard, for a lot of people i know to read,
> > people i never told the details of what happened out
> > of respect for her and myself, well, thats too much.
> > yes, i have a jaded past in the chat room, at best,
> > but let this be an even clearer message than the one
> > she tried to send, that if you say things that are
> > hurtful, they WILL come back to haunt you. keep my
> > life out of chat gossip, and ill respect the same
> > boundaries for you, ok?
> All while being married and still living w/ my
> husband? Well now, this information was crystal clear
> to you while you were invoilved with me now wasnt it?
> It wasnt like I lied to you about my situation and
> while you sit there and make me look like a whore in
> this post, why didnt you tell everyone how I was
> planning on leaving? Or how mean and cruel that
> husband was/ is to me? Or better yet, how even though
> I was married wouldnt have stopped you from coming to
> see me if you had the means to do so?
> Let me tell you, I sent a post to show tha tI knew
> exactly how it felt to be on both ends of the hurting
> game and I specifically left names out NOT to cause
> problems, all of the people involved were nameless,
> you all brought your names into this and before you
> sit there and bash me all to hell, take a look in the
> mirror because you are no better than me (that goes to
> Beth too)

Oh but see Amy the one thing everyone agrees on, well everyone I've talked to that is... is that you never should have said all of that stuff in the first place. Just admit it right now, you were wrong. You could have said you were sorry to all 3 of us without being specific. See as much as you'd like to think that by making all 3 of us nameless no one would catch on and know who you're talking about, quite a few people did catch on and asked me what your problem was. So while you may have had very few people acknowledge what you did and "praise" you for it, I had people tell me what you did was rude and insensitive. Go figure that's what I've been saying all along. I have been waiting for my apology that includes the statement, "I went about it the wrong way". I realize now I won't get that, but you could give that to someone else. See you like to work situations to your benefit. You apologized to one, but not the rest. How convenient for you. You do not feel badly about how you've ever treated me, because you went right ahead and did it again. You treated me like a doormat once again and walked all over me. Come on Amy, for once in your life admit you were just plain wrong and don't give any other explanations. Don't give your sad homelife story, don't give your sad chat past stories... don't give any other story except the one where YOU were finally just plainly in the wrong. If you can do that you will finally be the kind of person you should be. Until then, you are a two faced lying backstabber who has been trying to claim in my emails that you are and were my friend when all the while you've not been. Not if you felt the need to use a public forum to "make an example". You could have made an example JUST as easily by saying, "there are some people in my past that I held grudges against and made miserable, but thankfully we are all friends now and it's over" Instead, Amy, YOU had to be specific. You SHOULD be ashamed of yourself. I doubt if you are really. But on the chance you read this and finally decide to just say you're sorry and quit explaining why the hell you did what you did THAT is when I will listen.

Jay I'm so sorry I made this post after I messaged you last night and said you wouldn't see crap like this anymore. Because that's basically all it is... crap. I feel this incredible need to do this on this board because well it's where it originated. If this had originated in my email, I would have kept it there. And what took me such a short time to write.. it has taken me all night to think about. And here's what I've come up with...there are just some people in this life that think because they have problems that makes it ok to hurt someone else's feelings, especially if that person has hurt them in the PAST. Amy take your own advice you gave me last year when we started talking again. Let the past go and start fresh. The longer you hold things against people or "use them as examples" the more hurt you will instill on everything you touch. I am a real human being and your words yesterday hurt me and cut very deep. If you never give me the one thing I've asked for I will know your entire "friendship" to me was a farse. Be careful from now on what you say, it will come back two fold and kick you right where it hurts the most.

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