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Subject: YOu getting pregnant


Author:
Katherine
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Date Posted: 23:32:10 12/10/04 Fri

Dear Kelly
i listen to you, kidd, and the Gang every morning. i'm a big fan of yours. You make me laugh. i love hearing the mommy test, dear diary, and the advice you have to give to women on the Love letters to kelly. You'll make a great mom. But you are so anxious to get pregnant. i hear it every morning and believe me i completly understand. My husband and i too were trying to have a baby. We succeed to get pregnant but we lost it due to an ectopic pregnancy. OUr Doctor said we could try again and if we weren't pregnant by next year we'll see what's wrong. i was having pains on my right side and we found out when i lost the baby i had cysts grow in both tubes. So i had to go into sugery again. The right tube which was the pain causer its now distroyed and the left is saved but it's blocked by a cyst. The Doctor gave me two choices i could go threw another sugery again and risk having the cyst come back or risk having the tube not work and risk having another ectopic pregnancy or i could go do INVITRO. My dear husband not wanting me to threw any more pain said we'll leave it in God's hands. And if one day we can afford Invitro we'll try it. i'm only 25 and i already have a 2 year old from a previous marriage. My x husband was abusive and sent away when our son was 7 months old. My new husband on the other hand is is absolutly wonderful. He's my white knight, my king, and my son absolutly adores him and he only knows him as Daddy. My new husband and i wish he could adopt my son but we know my x will never allow it just to be dispitful. I was not able to get my x's parental rights revoke but i was able to get soul custody and supervised visits. The x is in and out of our lives every once in a while just to let us know he's there but my son really dosen't know who he. My son only sees him once in a blue moon last time my son saw him was in May of this year. Any way i guess i told you that long life story just to tell you to count your blessings and don't worry you will get pregnant as soon as you stop trying so hard. With your prayers and Freddies prayers, prayers of friends and family and all those strangers including myself praying for you. Who's to say you wont? Just leave it in God's Hands and leave it there for good. As you say when you give advice on "dear letters to kelly" when a friend has has a problem with a close friend dating someone that is wrong for them tell them how you feel once and that's it they'll figure it out eventually. It may be a bad example but with God i think it's the same. So a prayer once and he'll figure it out eventually. So leave it in God's hands and let it go. It'll happen...just wait and see "Take Delight in the Lord and he will give you your heart desires" Psalm 37:4
Katherine

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