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Keep your head up!

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Cherise

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Date Posted: 09:39:25 03/18/05 Fri

Hey! I'm sure you're sick of people writing you about the pregnancy issue, but could I put in MY two cents? I thought it wasn't meant for me to be a mother and had given up on it. I also had a friend in the same position. As for me, I completely gave up and decided to accept my fate. I think something happens when you put it out of your mind, because as soon as I did-I found out I was two months pregnant. I know it's very hard NOT to think about it, but if you could just put it out of your mind and try to concentrate on other things, hopefully you too will have the same luck I did. As for my friend, I gave her the same advice and she also ended up pregnant. I'm not sure, but maybe we think about it so much we get our bodies in a "twist" or something. You are a beautiful woman with a great personality and I'm happy for you that you found a good man. I read a letter from a woman saying how negative you are--I hope you don't let that bother you. To me you are down to earth and most of the time we have the same opinion on things. Also, I don't think you need a "mommy test", because you seem like you will be a wonderful mother. It just comes natural anyway, the whole mommy instinct. Just wanted you to know that I too had problems conceiving and now I have two little boys and a beautiful little girl (all bi-racial). I was once even told that the reason I couldn't conceive was because my man was black and it wasn't the way God intended it. People have all the myths and stories in the world, but as for me, I strongly believe that if you could just get it off your mind you will be pleasantly surprised within a few months. I wish you and your husband the best of luck in everything and hope to get to meet you in person one day. We love you here in Amarillo and listen as much as we can. (Sometimes it's hard to hear between the crying and nagging!!!) By the way, you don't look like you need to lose any weight, what's the deal with that?

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