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Date Posted: 23:13:34 03/30/02 Sat
Author: Caleb
Subject: Re: First post in forever
In reply to: Yvonne 's message, "First post in forever" on 01:23:06 03/30/02 Sat

Hmmm, it has been a while since we posted. I too would like to write this out and not look it over afterwards. That however is not possible because it will be horribly misspelled. Thus I won't read it over but I will be running a perfunctory spell check. Our friendship has been a weird and very dynamic thing over the years. It has always been changing. Its focus has changed from being new, to Ania, to drinking, to Matt, to Tech, to Times, to walking, to Mandell, and eventually to whatever it is now and whatever it will be when we leave Trinity. I guess I feel that trying to attain some level of old friendship will be very forced and rigid. This is going to sound corny but I think that we should accept the idea that our friendship is changing and make the best out of it. OK that was definitely corny. We should include in this new friendship walks and being responsive and making fun of minorities, and making a fool out of myself, and walking around with your pants unzipped, and downing large quantities of Bacardi. These are great aspects of our relationship that we should definitely keep. I think that we can totally still be great friends but we need to let things happen and take them as they come. We can't really control friendship and that has been part of my problem. I have been all upset because it was changing and as a result I messed it up a bit. But it is totally going to change and I think that nothing we can do will change that. Hence, to reiterate, we just need to make sure that when it�s done changing, we are still great friends. There are totally some things that we can do to help this process along. I, for one, can stop my whole distancing thing. I can stop all the emotional distancing that has been going on. There will however, be some minor social distancing. You and I even, are getting an expanded pool of friends and that means that maybe we won't be able to spend quite as much time together as we have in the past. But, that does not mean we won't still be really good friends. It just means that when you go out for bartending practice I won't really mind and we will probably go out for a walk afterwards.
I guess that my distancing was the reason that I have felt that you have been irritated by me for the last few months. That, and the fact that we seemed to be loosing our common interests. I basically have no interest in the paper anymore, and you have no interest in tech. The cold has killed our walking and we all know about my renowned prowess in conversing over the phone. Also the fact that you got a lot of friends and I freaked out contributed to our falling out. In case you have not noticed, this section of my lengthy post is dedicated to the causes of our present dilemma. Well I have covered our past, our present, and my view of our possible future. I think you number among the greatest people in the world and would really like to continue being friends with you. We just need to sort out some shit while we do that. I need to get up in a few hours to hunt for hidden candy and I still have a spell check to run so I will end this repetitive and melodramatic rant now. Goodnight

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Re: First post in forever -- Yvonne, 12:43:46 03/31/02 Sun