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Subject: Welcome back!! ((((((((((hug))))))))))))

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Dreemdanser

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Date Posted: 13:41:54 05/07/07 Mon
In reply to: Ariana 's message, "Back from the mist...." on 06:03:06 04/23/07 Mon

Wow...yes soaking in the positive loving energy! And boy do I need it! Too many really icky people out there. Sometimes it just makes me want to curl up in a cuccoon and hide!

About the e-mail...the only good thing about reactivating the old one is you keep your addy and places where that is your contact info don't have to be recontacted/registered. Spam will find you anywhere!

looking back on the baby years I have lots of thoughts. The first is that those baby years are past in a blink of an eye. i really like the baby years. My youngest just turned 18. We have 1 more public school event (until grandkids) to attend and that is her graduation!) We have been attending public school events/meetings/trips/etc. for more than 16 years now. Will feel weird not to be ruled by their rules and schedules. I guess what I am saying is that those early years are the easiest but you don't know it at the time. At the time the whole huge transition and change of it all makes it sometimes seem overwhelming. But the adolescent/teen/young adult years are much much harder. If i regret anything it is that I didn't have the luxury to enjoy those early years more fully...like with my eyes wide and really aware of how time would fly so fast. Ideally, if one can avoid daycare and can be financially Ok enough to have more time with them when they are little it is so much better. I was really fortunate to run my own business and work part time most of those years and not have them in daycare. I guess, just make sure you two have enough time for total focus on yourselves now so that you will be prepared to have the focus shift to the kid/s and know that you both are ready to do that and know it is a mutual choice. Kids take soooo much of our energy and attention, and they should. Like I said...I really loved those early years! But the question a couple needs to be asking themselves is if they are ready to knuckle down for 20+ years of change. And absolute change it is. Some of it is sublime and wonderful and some of it is heartrenchingly tough...just like a romantic relationship...just like life. So sending all the positive and loving energy back your and your hubby's way! You stand on the precipice of change with all of it's wonder and craziness to boot! Best wishes!!! keep us posted (pun intended!lol!)

hugs,
Dreemy

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