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Subject: Re: Hi Im back!!!!!

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Dreemdanser

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Date Posted: 10:17:07 02/02/08 Sat
In reply to: ace 's message, "Hi Im back!!!!!" on 21:54:57 01/18/08 Fri

Hi Ace,

Sorry I haven't been around much of late! Hope you check back and see this.

Hello to all my dear friends here! I do think of you all and miss everyone. I am running several businesses these days and time is in short supply.

Ace, I'm not sure if I understood everything you were feeling sad about but I did want you to know that we all feel this way sometimes....you are certainly among people here who understand and have felt the same way sometimes. It is a normal human need and desire to want to connect with friends and sometimes feel we are not connecting. And everyone wants to find that one special someone they can feel that special connection to. But in truth most of the people out there who do pair off with someone don't have the fabulous, wonderful, wow kind of relationship that looking from the outside you might think they do. It is not the norm or the common or easilly found connection that is the heart's true desire. It is the rare and hard to find and sometimes long awaited connection that you are dreaming of. Just pairing up with someone for the sake of saying you have a BF or GF doesn't really make one happy. In fact it can cause more grief! So while other people may make it look easy and like they have it all going on...they probably don't have it as great as you assume.

It is going to hurt...that longing that we all feel when we don't have that need fulfilled. But it can hurt worse to be with the wrong person or be in a bad or crummy relationship. It really truly is worth the wait to keep on doing the things to improve yourself and grow and continue your path to the life you are building and hold out for the right connection.

people used to say to me, maybe the universe knows you aren't ready. That would make me so upset and i would say, I KNOW I am ready!! But what i hadn't considered was that maybe my soulmate wasn't ready!! Maybe your special person is still working through stuff and they are not in the right point in their lives for you 2 to meet. As it turned out that was the case with me and with my soulmate.

In the meanwhile do the things you would do if you were with that special someone. Gaze at the sunsets, go to the great movie, learn the fun new hobby, be the person you want to be. When the connection finaly happened you will be a wealth of great stuff to share with them.

love and light,
Dreemy

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