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Dreemdanser
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Date Posted: 11:06:05 04/03/08 Thu
In reply to:
Crystal
's message, "Thank you, and update" on 14:22:28 04/01/08 Tue
OH YES!!! I soooooooo agree on the kindeness thing! Why do people just forget to be kind??? When someone steps into a role with a name to it like husband or wife or boss or president of such and such....people forget humanness, and KINDNESS. We do have to also remember to be kind to ourselves and not make choices that are self-destructive...but when it comes to the way we treat others sometimes people can remember kindness towards total strangers and somehow forget it totaly with those they are closest to. There's just no substitute.
I don't see the directive "to harm none" being a neutral gear way to live....I mean you can't just say, I wasn't MEAN, if you are holding back kindness. It's like holding back water and justifying it by saying, well I didn't cause your thirst!
JMHO!
love and light,
Dreemy
>Hi! I'm sorry to hear your husband has been down sick
>like that. I hope he is feeling better now. {?}
>Increase in work can be a good thing! Hopefully I will
>be doing that too before summer is over. lol (after my
>car gets it's motor replacement....) Anyways life has
>it's ups and downs, sometimes interesting to see the
>ebb and flow of it all.
>
>
>Thank you for your advice! It was really helpful.
>Thoes two are picking out cd's for it since you
>posted, and they got candles to start off with
>(pre-clensed and all, with light laveder scent). Also,
>charged the candles and holders with "peaceful healing
>energies" for a little boost...So far so good with
>this.
>
>The young couple are doing ok so far, and this does
>have the potential to be of the lasting kind.
>Communication is the major area they seek help
>with....however as you say "... I find that what most
>people are missing is KINDNESS as well as a sense of
>fairness and mutual respect." is also true, especially
>in the first few weeks. I think it's about finding the
>*right* ballance, through trial and error that's
>showed up. One thing that's helpful for
>newlyweds....is them having a video of the wedding or
>at least a video statement done to each other (and a
>reminder to themselves) of why they are getting
>married, (with a message to their "future" spouse, and
>so on) that they get to view after the honeymoon and
>keep.
>
>Once again, thank you for your help.
>
>Crystal
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