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Angel
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Date Posted: 13:32:54 10/08/05 Sat
In reply to:
Bree Bree
's message, "Hi Angel" on 12:51:43 10/08/05 Sat
No Im not new here, I have been here for a good few years...as for the comments you made regarding my post, Im sorry but I find them more than a little worrying...Im sorry hun but a baby isnt there for your sake,again I say a baby isn't there for you to hand back when you feel you've given enough love...and I also think that it doesnt matter whether a child is yours or not, if we spend time with any child we develop a bond with that child, it is an important and strong bond that is completely special...unless you do the babysitting thing you really dont have an idea of what parenthood holds...its not all smiles and hugs and nights full of un-interupted sleep...
I can remember many a night, sitting up for hours on end with my daughter when she went through a phase of having night terrors, she would be resisting me screaming at the top of her voice, to the point where she was hysterical...I couldnt wake her from her nightmare, she had to come around herself so I just held her, she pulled my hair, scratched my face, hit out at me...she didnt know who I was until she very gently was soothed awake by me.
If you desperately want something to love and care for then can I suggest you get yourself a pet...they are much easier to hand back when you've had enough...a baby is for life, not just for christmas.
Everyone I know who had a child young said the same thing to me...they thought that that would be the end of all their problems, they would be grown ups...they then realised how un-prepared they were...and now their kids are totally screwed up
I do think that the trouble you have been through recently where your mum is concerned has got a lot to do with this, I think that you need to sort your life out before considering having a baby, finishing school would also be a good thing, and please, do some babysitting...look after a child for a couple of days even if thats possible...
What does your boyfriend feel about you wanting a baby??
Angel
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