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Date Posted: 12:48:57 04/11/05 Mon
In reply to:
Bree Bree
's message, "HELP!!!!" on 11:03:36 04/05/05 Tue
Sorry i wasn't online sooner, Luv. I think perhaps calming and soothing energies are my first thought...to send to you. So soak them in, Dearheart.
Now, as for this situation you find yourself in in being out of touch with your friend from the past. Visualize her well, happy and healthy. send her love in your heart and mind. Do this whenever she comes to your mind. But otherwise release her into the loving and protective hands of the Goddess and God. In truth, there is nothing more you can do. If you two are meant to connect again then you absolutely will, and if not, you are just making yourself frantic and letting your imagination conjure up all sorts of fearful images. Fear is actually the opposite of love. I know that people think hate is...but fear is anti-love. If you think about it almost all hate is born out of some form of fear, and violence as well. So by allowing yourself to be overcome with fear you are harming yourself and not doing your friend any good as well. Instead try to focus your mind and calm your racing thoughts. Do not allow fear to rule.
It is common for new pagans/wiccans to seek out seers and people who can help them delve into deeper awareness and knowledge of the unknown. That's all well and good but honestly, most times the people they seek out don't have any more knowledge of the situations that the person themselves has access to. I will never forget when a dear woman whom I had been seeing for tarot card readings (back about 20 years ago) looked me straight in the eye, and said, "You don't need me, my dear. I will not take your money. Go, and learn the tarot yourself...the power is within you to glean the answers you seek." Well, I was stunned. And I had a lot of mixed feelings about it all. But she was not only right but amazingly generous of spirit to tell me the truth. She also helped me to see that I was obsessing on things that were out of my realm of control and not what I should be focusing on.
Bree....I suggest that you go get yourself a set of runes and a rune book if you don't already have these. (If you want to get into other things like tarot of course you can do that...but the runes have less subjectivity and therefore will not lead to more imagininings on your part since you are currently so stressed about your friend). When you can't seem to let go of the thoughts in your head, then pull a rune. It will tell you what you should be best focusing on at the current time. That, to me seems a more productive tac to take than frantically trying to glean information that the universe is obviously obscuring from your view at the current time.
As for the communication spell not working....don't be so sure. We cannot always see the big picture. The bottom line is that you have exhausted the possibilities at this time and it is time to let go...at least of the franticness and wheel-spinning. Keep her in your heart and mind and whenever you think of her send her love and all positive energies.
all comfort to you,
Dreemdanser
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