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Nancy Noel
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Date Posted: Saturday, August 02, 02:37:19pm
Hi everyone, I wanted to let you know that a couple of days ago, my son called and acted like nothing happened. He said that the kids wanted to come over if I didn't mind. I jumped right on that. Of course they could come over. They have been here since. Do you think they got tired of the kids that have documented behavior problems?????
My granddaugher told us a little bit ago that her dad said that they see Grandma & Pa too much and were not coming over again. She also told us that they have been house hunting and found a house far away from us. They are supose to move this week.
Not only did this break my heart, but it made me furious. Mike and I bought the house they live in under the conditions that my son pays the payments, insurance,taxes and upkeep. There is no official contract.
So far, every month since his girlfriend moved in, he either doesn't make the payments,or he is so late that we have to make the payments and/or pay the late charge. No insurance and Mike pays the taxes.
Thier house is always a FILTHY mess. The only time it gets cleaned is when they know a worker is coming over or someone that works with my disabled granddaughter, Sabrina.
The girlfiend is young, strong & healthy. But...she is sooooo lazy. The house isn't that big, I sure wish I had things set up in my house like she did. Everything on one floor. She just won't do it. My son comes home from work and cleans and cooks supper.
Amber just told me that the girlfriend says that my house is a big pit. Doesn't know how I can stand to live here.
I will be the first one to say, my house is a mess. I just can't clean it properly. I even complain about it myself.
Let me ask this, JUST WHO THE H*LL DOES SHE THINK SHE IS?? I just can't stand being around that girl. All her lies. I could tell you all about them, but there are too many lies to go into.
If they move, that means that Mike and I are stuck, again, with thier house payments, taxes and insurance. Plus the fact that my grandkids will be far away. I told my daughter, Barb, no matter what she was thinking, keep her mouth shut. Amber tells everything she knows. I don't want anymore conflict.
I sure can't stop them from moving. It was also said that they weren't going to tell us where. I just don't know what to do. Mike and I took care of the two older children for over a year and a half. No support, no help of any kind. I did get turned in to the social worker about once a week by the birth mother for some reason or another. They never came out tho. They just called me. The knew how the birth mother was, they had already taken away 3 of her kids before.
During that year and a half, my house was spotless. I made sure of it. Once I got too sick to take care of the kids and they went to live with my son, my house just fell apart.
I guess I'm just hurt and angry at this girlfriend and my son for doing this. Everyone please keep me in your prayers. I'm over my stress limit, not sure what to do. How do you deal with such ignorance and all the lies???
Hugs & Love, Nancy
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