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Subject: 太客氣了

Author:
Darren

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Date Posted: 01:22:49 11/17/01 Sat
In reply to: 心雲 's message, "只抒己見，休言請教" on 09:20:16 11/15/01 Thu

心雲大師：
你的問題很複雜,我也思考了好一段時間.

第一.我當然不認為你所舉的例子是應該的.因為我們絕對不能以貌取人,更不能因此而破壞了規則.所以我說"Qai"同學竊議其行為舉止於其後,不該.

第二.你所舉的例子與莊子的不辯之辯有很多吻合的地方,我copy and paste給你看.
大知閑閑，小知間間。大言炎炎，小言詹詹。其寐也魂交，其覺也形開。與接為構，日以心斗。縵者、窖者、密者。小恐惴惴，大恐縵縵。其發若機栝，其司是非之謂也；其留如詛盟，其守勝之謂也；其殺如秋冬，以言其日消也；其溺之所為之，不可使復之也；其厭也如緘，以言其老洫也；近死之心，莫使復陽也。喜怒哀樂，慮嘆變蜇，姚佚啟態--樂出虛，蒸成菌。日夜相代乎前而莫知其所萌。已乎，已乎！旦暮得此，其所由以生乎！《齊物論》
我想你的意思是,辯論並不有助於解決問題,有時空辯一場,甚至兩敗俱傷,導致更多問題出現.對嗎?這個我想我明白了.

第三和第四.你的意思是我們可以議論,不過要公開地議論,還要在當事人知道的情況下議論,要不然就變成說是非.這個我都明白了.

還有,這卡耐基是何許人也?好像是甚麼甚麼人性的弱點的作者,人性的弱點又是甚麼東東?

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Subject	Author	Date
Re: 太客氣了	心雲	07:50:18 11/17/01 Sat

Re: 太客氣了	Russell Fung	12:41:19 11/19/01 Mon
Long Time No See -- Kung, 15:28:11 11/19/01 Mon Re: Long Time No See -- Russell Fung, 16:49:11 11/19/01 Mon miss you so much -- 心雲, 20:06:48 11/19/01 Mon Re: Long Time No See -- Darren, 00:44:55 11/20/01 Tue