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Date Posted: 18:21:58 10/22/04 Fri
Author: Shane
Subject: Re: What if Already Married
In reply to: former Chgo member 's message, "Re: What if Already Married" on 12:36:34 10/22/04 Fri

UBF has a pecking order of recruitment. The higher you are on the pecking order the more attention and pressure you get. If you come in already married and typically older, you will not get as much attention and as a result less pressure. UBF prefers a blank slate.

Here is the general UBF pecking order, feel free to add your own thoughts.

1. Young single white male
2. Young single white female
3. Older single white male
4. Older single white female
5. Young single minority male
6. Young single minority female
7. Young single Korean immigrant male
8. Married couple

you could probably fit sub groups in there, such as No Christian background. (They don't want "Old Christian attitude" translation: someone who could quickly sniff out the UBF cult practices)

Shane

>They are not actively looking for them,but they are
>desparate to reach whoever is willing to come and if
>you come with a spouse they'll get both of you hooked
>up to some bible teacher. Because your dealing with
>two people they are very careful. They don't press
>them too hard and almost leave them be to do what they
>want as long as they are not too out of line. Once
>they are around a few years and know they can press
>them, they will put on the pressure on.

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