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Subject: Re: Soiling Solutions and The Clean Kid Manual Author: Shelly [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ] Date Posted: Wednesday, December 10, 2025, 06:01: am In reply to: Shelly 's message, "Re: Soiling Solutions and The Clean Kid Manual" on Wednesday, December 10, 2025, 05:23: am What do you think? You were a holder. What do you think is bouncing around in her head. Your insight in to this has been so valuable to me. You know that. If you knew your mom was going to put you on the toilet every day, same time and you had to poop or you would get the bulb one time to make you go wouldn't that have taken away your chances to practice withholding your poop? Wouldn't it soon have just become a routine that you knew was going to happen same time every day and so you could use your brain to explore your world about other things that are important to kids? You take that control or attempt at control of their bowels away from the child and they can worry about other things. I see it in my boys. They know they have to poop every day or suppository. We do about one suppository per each boy about every six or seven days. And that is just because they are too busy doing other things to go sit and try to poop. Their choice. I don't force sits on them. If they are okay with getting a suppository because they won't go sit and poop then that is on them. But for our young lady going forward sits are now the rule. And I no longer take her word for it. Disgusting or not I have to see the poop. She will adjust. If I get to clean her friend out after talking to mom I can see that being a great help for our girl. Kitten Paw talks about how natural it is for her and her BFF to get semi naked or naked and exploring. And they are very comfortable being naked with each other and watching each other use the vibrator or the other get an enema from her mom. If I get to clean out this friend of our gal's I think I'll get a toilet chair and have them both in the bathroom on the 'potty' at the same time with their enemas in them. I'm not inclined to take three hours to clean one of them out and then another three hours to clean the other one out. If this friend wants to show empathy like Kitten Paw says she does then she can sit there with her enema in her too. If she gets constipated and wants me to clean her out I will. If she is working me like Kitten Paw says she is then I have a little surprise for her. She can get her enema right along with her friend. I can have the nozzle sterilized and bag refilled in about three minutes, maybe four tops. [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ]

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[> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Soiling Solutions and The Clean Kid Manual Author: AV [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: Wednesday, December 10, 2025, 07:34: pm Shelly, Here is my first thought. Since sitter wrote you, why not set up a journal where she journals her thoughts and communicates with you. You in turn, answer her, and that is the way you two communicate. When I decided to take control of my own bowels, I did exactly what you are saying. I did sits. I would sit on the toilet when I had urges and tried breathing exercises to relax myself to be able to allow the bowel movement to naturally come. I would take deep breaths at times and push to help. I would extend my legs out like I did when I was younger. I keep doing this each time I had an urge. It helped a lot. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]