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Subject: Re: Soiling Solutions and The Clean Kid Manual Author: Shelly [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ] Date Posted: Monday, December 15, 2025, 10:35: am In reply to: Shelly 's message, "Soiling Solutions and The Clean Kid Manual" on Tuesday, December 09, 2025, 08:10: pm I do understand her because I see a little of me at her age. I hated that the other kids in the family knew when I was on the toilet to poop or get an enema out. I get it. I don't raise my voice to her. I just demand that she do her sits, that she takes her enemas and let her deal with it emotionally as best she can. I try to make it as matter of fact, this is what I need from you. So yesterday her step dad dropped her off here just before dark. I gave her an hour and a half of time for herself in her room. Then we had dinner and a half hour after she ate I told her to go do her first 3 minute sit and try to poop for me. She says to me "I went at home just before we came". I knew that was a lie. I just repeated, "you need to go do your first sit." She didn't repeat her lie because she knew I knew. After her second 3 minute sit was almost over I went in and got her suppository ready and got her up off the toilet and sat down and gave her the suppository and, surprise, her rectum was full! She just can't help herself. She won't let it out and she has no problem lying about it. Yes AV, either I encountered by the longest of odds two rare young things that have pooping problems, or, there are thousands and thousands or even millions of teens out there that have pooping problems. Sadly I've learned from all my research and talking to family and friends that the later is the case. And the vast majority of them are not treated or undertreated or treated incorrectly. Laxatives are the worst thing to give a holder. And for constipation laxatives take hours. Enemas get the job done right now. Suppositories take a little longer but not hours later or the next day. I am still in shock the conversation (actually it was one way, she talked I listened) I had with this friend about her constipation issues and she just wants someone to give her a colonic twice a month. She was so calm and matter of fact talking to me about it that I was the one that was embarrassed! She obviously is in distress many days each month and just is begging her mom to help her feel better. I think her coming here for clean outs for her constipation will really help our sitter with her emotions about pooping. I can hope anyway. [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ]

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[> [> Subject: Re: Soiling Solutions and The Clean Kid Manual Author: AV [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: Monday, December 15, 2025, 12:45: pm Shelly, Pharmaceutical company controls it all. Doctors love to prescribe medication to get that kick back. Back in the day, enemas was the solution for all. It still is really. And you are right, it would not hurt a single child if they were giving weekly clean out enemas. Will help with sickness as well. The sitter friend is a prime example, she isn’t feeling well but after a nice deep clean enema she will be. Sitter isn’t trying to go. She is just sitting. She needs to learn to control her breathing and push. But she may have been like me. I was constipated. And it hurt so therefore I didn’t try to get it started coming out. The reason for the enemas to force me to push due to the cramps and urges. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> Subject: Re: Soiling Solutions and The Clean Kid Manual Author: Shelly [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: Monday, December 15, 2025, 01:25: pm I think it was Kitten Paw who said that at the pediatric clinic where her mom used to work for several years that promoted suppositories and enemas instead of laxatives that almost all parents of children of all ages when asked when their child pooped last or how often do they poop say they don't know. They don't know! After about 7 or 8 all the way to magic 18 where they supposedly are not in need of mommy care any more and they don't know!! When did he poop last, "I don't know". Well his rectal vault is full right now and that's why he is wetting the bed at night. Sitter's mom finally had the last straw when at 10 or 11, don't remember when, she started wetting the bed and made her have Fleet enemas to force her to poop. Yes I know she isn't trying to poop on her three minute sits yet but Dr. Collins says they will. Older children obviously will take longer but their body, the muscles and nerves in their bottom, will get the hint and give them contractions to empty even if their mind still doesn't want to let them poop. You have to give them those two opportunities to poop before you give them the suppository. She hates it! I get it. It's potty training. Don't deny it. Oh well. We smear our underwear we get potty trained! I don't care if you are 16 years old. She is starting to show me her defiant side and I am getting a little cynical. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Soiling Solutions and The Clean Kid Manual Author: AV [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: Monday, December 15, 2025, 09:56: pm I grew up with a mom with three rules in place for me: if I stained my underwear or if I was caught holding, or if I had a grumpy attitude I received an enema. Sitter’s smeared underwear and defiant side would immediately warrant her an enema. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]