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Subject: Re: Enema advice Author: Chloe [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ] Date Posted: Monday, December 15, 2025, 11:57: am In reply to: AV 's message, "Re: Enema advice" on Monday, December 15, 2025, 11:41: am That seems like a useful suggestion. I’ll try having him focus on deep breathing next time. It’s important that he learns to stay composed and follow direction, even when he’s uncomfortable. Afterward, the diapering follows the same structure as always. It’s part of the process and not something he gets a say in. He doesn’t always like it, but he understands it’s necessary, and I don’t let those complaints change the routine. The schedule itself does the work: Fridays start the cycle, then he stays diapered through the weekend until Monday morning. That predictability keeps him grounded, even when he resists. If he acts up he also goes into diapers for the next week as soon as he gets home from school every day. [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ]

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[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Enema advice Author: AV [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: Monday, December 15, 2025, 12:13: pm Chloe, Yes, by him taking deep breaths he controls the cramps but also allows more solution to go into him. The inflatable nozzle isn’t going to let it come out so he learns to breathe to take more in. Two things you could do, one, give him a small enema to empty his rectum and then give him the almost two quarts. By emptying his rectum he will be able to take more deeper into his colon. Or, I have heard that goat milk soap doesn’t cause cramps but coats his intestines really well. Since he is having to hold it due to the inflatable nozzle, the goat milk soap will coat him good and go deeper into him without any cramps as he breaths as well. He would probably be expecting to have cramps and be waiting but as he waits, the goat milk soap is coating him and going deeper into him. Ask him to breathe deep and he will take more in. A good deep cleaning enema solution. Will you give an update to know the effectiveness of how his breathing helps him. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Enema advice Author: AV [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: Monday, December 15, 2025, 12:59: pm I will also add, I have known parents to use just warm water as the enema solution and some parents have used johnson and johnson baby shampoo. Some of course stay with the ole fashioned white ivory bar. I never saw mom make the solution. I just know the jar she brought in with her was warm soapy soapy water that did its job well. I imagine your son produces good results holding for a certain time plus having that inflatable nozzle to seal him until it’s time and that table of course holding him in position and restraining him from fighting it too much. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> [> Subject: Re: Enema advice Author: AV [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: Monday, December 15, 2025, 03:00: pm Chloe, Also thank you for being willing to share and educate. Sometimes parents who use DD and enemas don’t like to discuss but you shared and that means alot. I do hope you do share the breathing technique with your son to help him with his cramps but you would be happy to know he is helping to give himself the enema without knowing it by taking those deep breaths and taking more into him as the inflatable nozzle keeps him sealed. Which is what you want him to be able to do is take the enema. Please continue to update and educate. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]