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Subject: Success story of a Withholder Author: Andrea [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ] Date Posted: Wednesday, December 31, 2025, 02:53: pm Hi everybody. I haven't been on here for many months. I found you guys well over a year ago. I told you about my 10 year old that withheld her stools and I put her on an every night at bedtime one bulb enema to empty her rectum so she could not hold it in. Well she would come to ask for her enema after a few months if I was slow in getting it ready for her in the evenings. About five months ago we went to an every other night bulb enema. We are having no issues at all. She usually will not have a bowel movement on the off night but she clearly is not showing an holding behavior. We will continue her every other night enema maybe for years to come. There is no chance I will let her have an opportunity to ever start holding again because it was so awful for the whole family. And after reading how Shelly's babysitter is suffering because she was not stopped at a young age my daughter has evening enemas in her future for a very long time to come. My point I want to make is that your Italian girl knows she is in trouble and also knows from her research on the internet that an enema is instant relief. When you are in pain of any kind and you know there is something that will give you instant relief you will beg somebody to provide it for you. Even if it is something that seems scary and degrading. You want the pain and suffering to stop. If her mother is afraid of giving her enemas it is so thoughtful and selfless of you Shelly to fill that motherly role for her. I know you are doing it for the right reasons and it is perfectly okay to get some gratification yourself for getting to give another child enemas. You were finally introduced to enemas as a tween and grew up knowing kids benefit from regular clean outs. You got this! [ Next Thread | Previous Thread | Next Message | Previous Message ]

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[> Subject: Re: Success story of a Withholder Author: AV [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: Friday, January 02, 2026, 06:31: am Andrea, Thanks for the update. Glad all is well. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: Success story of a Withholder Author: Shelly [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: Friday, January 02, 2026, 10:58: am I just had a heart felt chat with Italian Gal's mother. She called me because her daughter is alarmed and upset because I was concerned how much poop she had in her. She is convinced now that she is going to get colon cancer because her colon won't empty itself. Mom says her daughter is a little bit OCD. Some in the Psychiatry circles call these kids 'anal' personalities because they fixate on issues about emptying their bowels in some cases. She is picky about what she eats because she reads or hears some where that it will give her cancer. And she has read the medical reports that say colon cancer is hitting younger and younger people every year. I told her to reassure her that she is going to be just fine. Don't worry about things you have little control over. Focus on what you can do. Sitter has to have her enemas every week now so she should come and I promise she only has to have one enema but it has to be a large enema so I can get it all the way across her transverse section. It is hard to get that large of an enema past so much stool if it isn't slippery from the soap I put in soapsuds enemas. But we can try just one large warm water enema it she really dislikes getting the soapsuds enema first. Mom says she definitely wants regular enemas now because of this new fear. I told mom to come and I will teach her how to give the enemas. She said she thinks her daughter would be more comfortable with me because she hates that her mom has to give her her suppositories because she isn't able to get them deep enough in herself to get them to empty her. So I told her Thursday after school is when we need to do the enemas. Oh, and sitter has learned a new strategy. I always keep her supplied in tampons and liner pads. She doesn't use the tampons but the pads disappear by the handfulls. All month long. And yet at times underwear still comes up missing. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: Success story of a Withholder Author: Shelly [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: Friday, January 02, 2026, 11:35: am Andrea, I remember your posts from last year. It is so good to hear from you. I remember you talking about standing in line at the Drug store with her in tow purchasing pull ups and a laxative of some kind, don't remember, was it miralax or Docusate and a stimulant? You can go to any Drug store and buy prepackaged one use enemas in a bottle but I challenge anybody to find a simple bulb enema syringe at any Drug store in this country. You pay dollars for every Fleet you give your child and what does it do? It empties the rectum. What would a one time purchase of a bulb syringe for a couple of dollars that could be used hundreds of times with no more money spent to put a little warm water in their butt do? Same thing. All of our children's Drs. in this country are bribed and sweet talked into never mentioning the possibility of solving a packed rectum or colon with a simple bulb or bag enema. No money to be made there. If I had nickel for every Fleet enema, bisacodyl, or mineral oil, or saline, sold, I would be able to buy a fancy mansion for my family and never have to work. I might have to buy it by making payments but a nickel an enema would be more than enough to buy it. In this country alone thousands are sold every day and then throw in the whole world that Fleet is shipped to. I digress. I get on my high horse and I can't get off. I'm so glad your little girl is okay with her enemas. She remembers those months and months of pooping herself and the tummy aches and the pull ups and the missed school. She loves her life now and even looks forward to her enema because it freed her from herself. Parents, our children who withhold their stools are having a fight with themselves. Two warring factions going at it inside their brain and their bodies are paying the price for it. Say NO no laxatives, no pull ups. We will be humane. We will do enemas! [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> Subject: Re: Success story of a Withholder Author: Kitten Paw [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: Friday, January 02, 2026, 02:26: pm Now that I'm older when I have to have an enema I wish a nurse that I don't know could give it to me so I didn't have to get naked for my mother. And when I need a spanking I wish dad would send me to a neighbor that I don't have to look at every day to spank my bare butt. Your new enema girl wants you to give her the enemas because she doesn't have to look you in the face every day knowing that you see her anus and put things in it. It's just a teen thing about who we would rather have to be naked for. If it has to happen please let it be somebody I don't have to live with. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]

[> [> Subject: Re: Success story of a Withholder Author: Shelly [ Edit | View ] Date Posted: Saturday, January 03, 2026, 09:25: am Kitten Paw you have been such a valuable source of understanding for me. I don't know which world is better for tweens and teens. The world I grew up in where innocence was protected for kids even through their teen years. Or your world where you and your BFF have watched each other get an enema put in you and you have contests getting to 'O' with her vibrator. I didn't even know there was such a thing as a vibrator to use to get off until I had sex for the first time. And didn't get a vibrator until after I had our first son. I had to have an episiotomy and it tore a few days later because I let myself get constipated with a hard poop. So we went months without penetration. After about a month I couldn't stand it any longer and got the courage to go to our local Dick and Jane store and bought myself a wand. I wish you could have seen me at the store shopping for a vibrator. The young gal managing the store wanted to tell me all about the features and best vibrator to get. If I wanted one to insert or just wanted one for my button and all I wanted was to just get one and get out of there as fast as I could. That vibrator changed my life Kitten Paw. My husband would probably like to throw it away if he knew how often I use it. So I know how much fun you and BFF have with it. I use it when I'm taking my enema and I get the most intense 'O' ever! There Kitten Paw. I told you something that nobody else in my circle of family or friends will ever know about me because I am still a product of the 90's. [ Post a Reply to This Message ]