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Subject: Easily remedied


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Chip
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Date Posted: 21:00:59 10/26/05 Wed
In reply to: indira 's message, "conused" on 22:21:24 09/11/04 Sat


What to do? Well, you can start off by dating guys who aren't old enough to be your dad. Also, you need to learn to keep your pants on around said guys who are old enough to be your dad. Also, this guy has only known you six months, yet he wants to marry you already, and he still calls you constantly to tell you he loves you, even though you dumped him already? I'm not sure why his wife divorced him, but it might have something to do with his clingyness and desire to push things too far, too quickly. Six months is not long enough to get to know someone well enough for marriage-any punk highschooler can date someone for six months. Basically, you've fallen for a loser. A romantic loser, but a loser nonetheless. There is no nicer word for a thirty one year old man that can only find his happiness in a nineteen year old. Think about it; if he's this obsessed with you now, after you already dumped him, just think about how obsessed he'll be if you actually marry him. He'll always be afraid that you'll leave him, and will probably employ measures that aren't physically or mentally healthy for you to ensure that you don't leave him for someone else, whether you plan to or not. You're only nineteen...don't put yourself through this. Finish school, ditch the dork, and find a man with a life.

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