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Subject: Re: i really need advice

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Melanie

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Date Posted: 03/24/09 6:48am
In reply to: lost 's message, "i really need advice" on 03/22/09 2:50pm

I really can't add a lot to what Pat has said, but I will add just a little.

I just saw an ultrasound of my first grandchild. If you have an ultrasound, you will see the very best reason not to have an abortion and that is your baby. All bs aside, that is the bottom line.

Then I have a question for you? Where do you see yourself with your boyfriend a year from now? 5 years from now?
Given his history, I would imagine that how much contact he has with your baby is pretty much up to you. If you are concerned about him being violent, there are things you can do to protect yourself. If you need help finding resources, I'd be glad to try and help you locate them.

I know several people (including my cousin) who never wanted children, but were really very attached to the children they had.

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