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Re: On the fence

Author:
enny (confsed and scared)

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Date Posted: 07/15/08 3:49pm
In reply to: Teresa 's message, "On the fence" on 12/26/07 9:14pm

Hi, I am going through the same thing as well and feel soo alone. im in my late 30's and was seeing someone for 2 months. He also wants me to have an abortion. I have found out who my true friends are and am sad to say i have been judged and criticized by someone who i never thought would turn thier back on me.
I do not have a supportive family in general so theoption to turn to them is not there..this I know!!
im about 5 1/2 weeks and scared! I have 2 children from my previous marriage and love themm so that I cant imagine I wouldnt feel the same for this baby as well.
I really could use a friend about now. thanks...j

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Pat
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Date Posted: 07/23/08 12:13am

enny,

I am going to tell you the same thing I told Lily. We are here for you. You are NOT alone. Not any longer. The father of your baby has no right to demand you have an abortion! That's cruel. He may change his mind, but you have to give him time. In the meantime, I urge you to protect your baby, and stand up to him on this issue.

I think you are right. You will love this baby just as much. Please protect your baby. Take one day at a time, and you will grow into the new responsibility. We love you and will be praying for you both, and for the father.

Hugs,
Pat