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Subject: Re: undecided, torn, exhausted

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mary f

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Date Posted: 11/10/08 5:36pm
In reply to: Kay 's message, "undecided, torn, exhausted" on 04/11/08 8:10pm

i know how you feel, i am in exactly the same situation as you but am 4 years older. i am very depressed and confused, but after seeing the ultrasound i know i can not live with myself after having an abortion. i do not kow exactly what i AM going to do - possibly go to a therapist and take some parenting classes - but i am convinced that i should not let fear control me. i know there are tradeoffs - i am very independent and have lived on my own since i was 17 and have travelled and worked all over the world - and there are still moments where i am convinced i can not do this. i just suggest that before you abort, you go to a clinic and have an ultrasound done. see if you can go thru with the abortion then. as for the boyfriend, i am in the exact same situation. but noone can count on a relationship 100% forever- even people who are "happily married" - i have seen enough of that in my life. everyone should be prepared to take over as a single parent if necessary in this day and age. let me know if you want to talk thru email.

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