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Subject: Re: Undecided

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Sharon

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Date Posted: 06/11/08 11:30am
In reply to: Leslie 's message, "Undecided" on 06/10/08 6:31am

Leslie,

Sometimes the things that are the most important blessings in our life first appear to be challenges - and maybe even obstacles. But, if we meet them head-on and embrace them, we find they are truly blessings.

I almost aborted my first child. He's now 28 and is one of the most loving, funny, kind, inspiring human beings I know. I can't imagine the world without him in it.

Be sure you fully educate yourself about what abortion really does and how developed the fetus is. I thought of him as a blob of tissue when I was considering abortion. But, it turns out he had fingers and toes, brainwaves, a heart that was beating, all of his organs in place. He was a tiny human being who simply needed time to grow.

Don't worry about what others might say about why you're pregnant. You're pregnant because this child of yours is ready to come into the world ;-)

As for supporting yourself, there are really good programs out there to help women with children. W.I.C. (Women, Infants, and Children) is one of them. Another is food stamps. Call your local crisis pregnancy center and ask them what is available in your community. You might be surprised. (I found that I actually had MORE to live on WITH a child than I did as a single woman because of the government programs designed to help mothers and their children. And, I didn't stay on them forever - just for as long as I needed to.)

I'll say a prayer for you.

Sharon

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