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Subject: Re: I need a hug

Author:
Heather

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Date Posted: 03/15/07 4:08pm
In reply to: Mary 's message, "I need a hug" on 03/14/07 4:05pm

Hi Mary,

Consider yourself hugged! And commiserated with. Some women's pregnancies are harder than others. I for one had very 'challenging' pregnancies but really easy births, and so far motherhood has been MUCH more agreeable than pregnancy, lol.

I can totally understand how/why you're feeling what you do. Don't forget those hormones factoring in, either. I always felt much less competent at multitasking and generally more sentimental and weepy while 'under the influence' of those hormones.

Be assured you DO have a lot to look forward to. You can always get back in shape, and you'll have a sweet babe to do it with. And one way or another your school work will work itself out. Maybe take on the one project that's weighing you down the most?

Good call coming here to vent - do so anytime!

With Kindness,

Heather

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Re: I need a hug

Author:
Donna
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Date Posted: 03/16/07 2:06pm

Awe ~ Mary~ Sending you a big {{HUG}} ,
I know it's so hard to be young, working hard with a job and school too. I think it's completely normal to have bad days, where you have thoughts like this. I think most women that are pregnant have bad days, frustrated with their bodies , their clothes. You are feeling overwhelmed right now. I promise you that when you get to the end of this journey and you see your precious baby, that came into the world, only because you cared and nurtured it for 9 long months, you feel a love like you've only imagined right before your very eyes.

Come here anytime you need to vent, we are here for you !!

Donna