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Subject: Re: scared


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Melanie
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Date Posted: 04/ 5/07 6:38pm
In reply to: Monica 's message, "Re: scared" on 04/ 5/07 1:10am

If you followed the directions on the pregnancy test, then most likely the results are accurate. False negatives are not uncommon. False positives are rare. However, getting a second test certainly won't hurt anything.

If you are worried about getting kicked out, you might want to talk to someone about your options if you need a place to live. Some Crisis Pregnancy Centers are tied in with shepherding homes. Then, I do recommend that you tell your parents since they will most likely find out anyway. If you tell them before they figure it out, they are less likely to be hurt. It's possible they will be really upset at first, which is a normal reaction. If they kicked you out now, they would be missing their grandson, I'm sure, so they may surprise you. It's also normal for us to imagine the worst-case scenario.

As for your boyfriend, he may or may not come around. If he hasn't abandoned you from the start, I'd say that's a good sign at least.

Hang in there and look for support and help. Find people who will be positive with you about the situation. You'd be amazed at what a difference that can make.

If there is anything I can do to help, just let me know.

--Melanie

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