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Subject: Re: First pregnancy

Author:
Pat

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Date Posted: 07/20/06 11:54pm
In reply to: Jacqueline 's message, "Re: First pregnancy" on 07/20/06 5:12pm

Hi, Jacqueline,

My heart is heavy for you. Your baby is depending on you for your protection. You may never have another child. My heart is heavy for Dom and for your relationship.

I understand you have decided to go through with it. But I am going to keep praying you will change your mind. Just remember, you will reach a point where you will no longer have a choice. Abortion is forever. You can't take it back.

I have a pretty good idea of what it is going to cost you, and I can tell you that it is unlikely you will not suffer terribly for this.

Yes, I will be here for you no matter what. But if you were my sister, I'd hug you so hard you couldn't walk! Seriously.

I'm scared for you. I pray that you won't suffer any complications. I pray that you will follow your heart. Please follow your heart!

Love and tears,
Pat

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Melanie
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Date Posted: 07/21/06 12:52am

Wow... if I ever gave the impression that you weren't a smart woman or that Dom was a bad guy I apologize as that was never, ever intended. I'm glad that the two of you are talking. I will echo pretty much what Lisa has said. I have seen a very few instances where a couple stays together after an abortion, but the deck is really stacked against it.

I know your mind is pretty much made up, but have you and Dom thought of going together to see what sort of help is out there for the two of you? When I got pregnant with my first child, I was workinga low paying job and, my husband was on unemployment. With my last one, my husband lost his job and we had to be on assistance a short time and move back home with my dad. Anyway, just thought I'd ask.

I will echo what the others have said in that no matter what we care about what happens to you as well and will offer support.

Take care,
Melanie