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Author: Pat
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Date Posted: 08/ 8/06 9:58pm
In reply to:
shelby
's message, "repost" on 08/ 8/06 9:47am
Shelby,
I am so sorry your dad has done this to you!
I urge you, along with Heather, to go to a crisis pregnancy agency. Like I said, you can get online counseling. Probably the best thing is for you to stay temporarily someplace else and have your baby, and then you can decide what to do at that point. I suspect a crisis pregnancy agency can arrange for someone to care for your horses, though it would be a highly unusual request. I personally know a woman who would probably help out, but she lives in Arizona, not Colorado, and she has empty horse stalls. So I am sure there are people out there.
I wouldn't be surprised if your parents gang up on you and try to force you to have an abortion. That's why it is SO IMPORTANT for you to get support now before you talk to them.
As for not having a future, of course you have one. As soon as your baby is born, you can go back to caring for your horses, and I know your baby will love them. Go ahead and plan for your future; do not be afraid. You can do it. There are people who will help you. Just set your mind to it. It will be a challenge, but you will be the stronger for it. I don't know why God gave you a child. We often don't know that sort of thing for a very long time. As for your friends, they're not really friends, if they would abandon you at a time like this. It is one way to find out who your true friends are. There are people who will stick by you. They are your true friends. And we will also be your friends. I wish I could come give you a hug, but a cyber hug will have to do. Maybe sometime we can meet each other. But for now, we will just have to be friends here.
Please continue to come here and talk to us. We care about you both.
Hugs,
Pat
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