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Subject: Re: i've decided

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luka

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Date Posted: 08/19/06 7:17pm
In reply to: Heather 's message, "Re: i've decided" on 08/19/06 12:47am

I agree with Lori 100 per cent. I fear for your safety once your father finds out that you are pregnant. He very well may try to harm you to conceal whats been going on. He may try to hit you in the stomach to make you lose the baby, god only knows. You are the one who has been and is being hurt here your father is the one in the wrong. Not telling anybody doesn't change that fact! How do you know that he didn't do this to your sister as well? Or anyone else. I was abused sexually as a child not by a family member though.. But in any case i wouldn't dream of letting my child anywhere near such a person family or not much less live under the same roof as them. Please consider at the very least getting out of there. You have alot to deal with right now, i do understand you not wanting to bring his abuse out in the open at this time. Maybe you can wait untill some time after your baby is born. But as a mother you need to protect both yourself and your child and get as far away from him as possible. It's your job to protect your baby. You have no responsibilty to protect your father from his wrong doing -it was his responsibilty to protect you! I worry when i read that you feel you would be making trouble for your family by telling anyone what has happened. It sounds like you are blamming yourself for being abused and it is in no way your fault!

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