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Date Posted: 08:01:23 05/27/04 Thu
Author: Carole
Subject: Will I get my boyfriend back and what do I have to do to get him

I am 45yrs old and a widow. My boyfiend is the only person I have dated since my husband died 2years ago. My boyfriend (Ron) is divorced. He raised his to boys. He was in a relationship after his divorce for 7 years then another one for 9 years. It is the woman from the last relationship, (the nine year relationship) that is breaking up my relationship with Ron. I see him almost ever day. I go to his house on Saturday and stay till Sunday night. She is trying everythig to get him back including call me at work and telling me she is still his girlfriend and that she still see's him. I know that I should'nt beleave her, but it is hard not to feel threaten by her. Ron doesn't know how to handle my emotions. It really bugs him. He was always telling me that i needed to not let her get under my skin. He told me that I wasn't going to loose him. But this last week I went to his house at around ten pm and her car was there. wlhen I called him he first try to deny it. When I told him I had seen her car he then told me that she came over to talk to him because her father is sick and she needed a shoulder. I asked him why he just didn't say that and he said that because he know I was going to get upset. I did. I do everything with Ron and his boys (21 and 27) I am the one that goes with him to see his mom, out with his friends, family getogethers. Not her, if he is seeing her, no one knows this. I feel very theaten by her. He said she will stop callin when she finds someone else. His girlfriend before her did this for two years and she had even married. What do I do? WIll I get him back and how do I do it? This last incedent was really bad. What made it worse is that I had him over for dinner on Tues...we always do this and our friends just happend to drop by. We were playing a game and it was getting late. The husband said we should play this weekend and eveyone was in agreement. But the he wanted to do it on Friday.. I don't go to Ron's on Friday, that is his and my chore night. Ron Said no and you could tell he was upset. After the left, I asked him what was wrong and he said that he felt that we had set him up and I sweared to him that we didn't. He did not want to beleave me. One thing led to another and of couse I brought up the old girlfriend. Ron has highblood pressure and takes two pills for it and he also takes pills for high colestrol. He just found out that he may also be border line diabetic. Lots of stress and I added to it with my insecurities. Plus the old girlfriend now has told him that her dad has cancer and only has two years to live. He knows that she will be bothering more. I want him back. she is the only thing we have ever fought about. WIll I get him back and what do I do to get him? help me please!

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