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Date Posted: 01:45:57 10/27/02 Sun
Author: Stevie Boy
Subject: Re: Wanting your ex-girlfriend back.
In reply to: Armando Palomino 's message, "Re: Wanting your ex-girlfriend back." on 11:24:29 02/20/01 Tue

That's a tough one. To me it seems that she has moved on, and found someone else and settled into a routine. Perhaps the best thing to do is to try and find someone else who you can start going out with to help you forget. If you really really want her back (I know how you feel - im in a very similar position) you can still stay sort of friends - not so close that you become one of her very good friends (and therefore too close to ever become her boyfriend), but sort of only just in touch. That way, you'll be in a position to "ask her out for a drink, just you and me" a week or two after she breaks up with her new boyfriend. To do this, you need to wait, and give yourself the correct distance between her and you. The most hurtful thing will be the time, but if you really want to go for her, you need to wait. When the time comes, move in. If she agrees to the drink, you have one more chance. If she doesn't (because its clear what you're trying to do - but in a subtle-ish way) then I think you really do have to forget about her. If you still don't want to, you can do the whole waiting/distance thing over again...

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Re: Wanting your ex-girlfriend back. -- Sergio, 09:29:44 04/03/03 Thu