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Date Posted: 09:29:44 04/03/03 Thu
Author: Sergio
Subject: Re: Wanting your ex-girlfriend back.
In reply to: Armando Palomino 's message, "Re: Wanting your ex-girlfriend back." on 11:24:29 02/20/01 Tue

Dear Armando, I am exactly in the same boat as you. I'm going on about three months now. She also needed space and she also has been with someone else since about a week after we broke up. Now I don't know how you treated her, but it seems that by letting her go and giving her space it shows that you really care. She is still in the excitement phase of someone new. Afterwhile comes the comparison phase (between 3-6 months). This is what is going to determine your fate. If your relationship was for the most part good, then I wouldn't worry about it. Like you said she will soon be missing something that nobody else can give her. Stay strong-don't call, don't stalk, and when she calls don't be rude, but don't comfort her because that's all she needs to refuel her tank and keep her going for awhile (Don't let her know your waiting for her). It has to get to the point to where she is going crazy wandering if you have moved on or not and she will soon be driven to come look for you. This way when she comes back your relationship will be stronger than ever and you'll have no worries.

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Re: Wanting your ex-girlfriend back. -- brian, 01:53:26 08/03/03 Sun