Date Posted:20:50:56 04/08/05 Fri Author:Heather Subject::~( Re: My Heaven In reply to:
Angel
's message, "My Heaven" on 22:27:18 01/18/05 Tue
I know the pain that you are going through. I miscarried my second baby at 8 weeks gestation on January 17th 2003. I have not gotten over it even to this day. It does not matter how long you carried your little miracle. We as mothers get attached to the growing life inside of us. We start planning for out lives with our babies, and when that dream shatters we are left devastated and with a hole in our hearts that will never heal. It is completely normal for you to mourn your 6 week gestation baby. Love cannot be measured by the amount of time you spend with a person. Mothers love their babies from the beginning. Most of the time if people tell us to" get over it" or, "you can always try again" or "at least they died before they were born with a birth defect" then it means that they have never suffered a child loss. They are ignorant and cannot begin to relate to the immense pain that we face when our precious babies die. Feel free to email me if you need someone to talk to. I have been through it, and I know what you are going through.
I am very sorry for your loss.
>I was pregnant with my second baby and I couldnt be
>happier. I prayed for it for so long and a week or so
>before christmas I found out I was. But a very short 6
>weeks after I lost my baby from a miscarriage. It has
>been one of the most hardest things I have ever went
>through. And reading this msg board my heart goes out
>to everyone who has lost a child. Everyone says
>looseing a child at 6 weeks still in the womb should
>be something I get over easy. Buts its not. I feel
>alone and I want more than anythign to be in heaven
>with my baby. I hope there is someone out there can be
>sum kind of support.
