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Date Posted: 10:03:52 11/30/02 Sat
Author: Daryl
Subject: Re: To Spank Or Not To Spank? (Your child that is) That Is The Question.
In reply to: Lafaux 's message, "To Spank Or Not To Spank? (Your child that is) That Is The Question." on 04:48:54 06/26/02 Wed

i grew up in the caribbean and i got spanked when i was little and look how i turned out. I'm a fine young man and i think it would be good for the common good. What if your child looks you in the face in public and tells you to F#@! off, what would you do? Just for arguement, what if he was 9yrs. old

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[> [> Re: To Spank Or Not To Spank? (Your child that is) That Is The Question. -- Justin, 11:21:16 12/14/04 Tue

I am the father of twin girls, age four, and they are definetely spanked when necessary...I will take down their pants, put them over my knee and give them up to twelve hard smacks on their bare bottom...I do not always use spanking, but when their behavior warrants it, I will tell them to get to their room for a spanking...they are generally well behaved, and know that if certain misbehaviors will bring about their bottoms being spanked...When they get to be five or six I will not hesitate to spank them with a hairbrush or spatuala while they are over my knee...the twins know that if they misbehave, they will be disciplined, and I believe that spanking works...


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[> [> [> Re: To Spank Or Not To Spank? (Your child that is) That Is The Question. -- George, 15:57:32 01/13/05 Thu

I have 4 small kids like you do, ages 3-8, and I have similar views on spanking. We do use a light leather whip instead of our hands, because we feel that hands are for loving not punishing. We used to use a belt, but belts can be heavy and may leave a bruise, which I feel is abusive. We always whip the kids naked, so it stings on bare skin but doesn't leave a mark.

Our procedure is when they kids really misbehave after being warned, we take off their clothes and underwear while explaining what they did wrong and that they are going to be punished. We don't whip them very hard because I would rather give them a long spanking than a hard spanking. They get between 10-30 lashes depending on their age and what they did. I usually whip their bottoms, back of legs and back. It never leaves a bruise or mark, just redness.

We rarely have to spank, and our kids are very well behaved. I think our approach to discipline has been effective.


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[> [> [> [> Spanking -- Emma (regular), 15:17:30 05/17/07 Thu

I agree, We have 2 sons one is a 14 year old and the other is an 8 year old and what we do is give a warning by yelling and then if they do it again they get whipped with a belt 5-10 times. It works.


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