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Subject: I've had this blessing recently, Hillbilly


Author:
dori
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Date Posted: 22:57:49 11/03/11 Thu
In reply to: Hillbilly 's message, "Genesis 32 vss 31-33 vss 1-4 Post 165" on 20:28:30 11/02/11 Wed

I wasn't planning to retire for another 10 years, but a good friend at work stabbed me in the back and went to my boss and turned her against me. It caused me a lot of pain when this happened, and I was very upset with her. I didn't hate her, but I couldn't forgive her. My friend, Cecil... remember him?... told me something very simple--he said love that which you hate and the person who wronged you takes the burden of that hate from you. I actually was able to do that, and I felt such a sense of calm. I was able to thank her to myself for helping me make a life-changing decision. Now I can be in the same room with her and behave pleasantly--without feeling anger toward her.
Forgiveness and reconciliation are so healing.

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Hillbilly
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Date Posted: 19:54:53 11/04/11 Fri

that I have no ill will toward anyone who I think has tried to harm me.

The only ones who I truly desire to see their come-uppance are the political critters who would bring this ccountry down for their own personal gain.


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